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Because I'm in the midst of the application process, the fact that I'm currently applying comes up a lot in conversation with relatives and non-premed friends. They are frequently curious about how I'm doing, but it's hard to update them without (a) going into a long description of what primaries and secondaries are and (b) answering questions that by now feel ridiculous to me, like "I haven't heard of the school you have an interview with, why did you apply there?" or "you're so smart, why aren't you applying to [insert well-known medical school here]?!"
How do I satisfy people's curiosity without being rude or dismissive? I don't want to say something like "it's too complicated, you wouldn't understand" or end up being snappy and irritated because they hold misconceptions about the application process that are difficult to correct.
I'm hoping I don't sound like a douche asking this question, and if it's been answered before, please direct me to where it has. Thanks!
How do I satisfy people's curiosity without being rude or dismissive? I don't want to say something like "it's too complicated, you wouldn't understand" or end up being snappy and irritated because they hold misconceptions about the application process that are difficult to correct.
I'm hoping I don't sound like a douche asking this question, and if it's been answered before, please direct me to where it has. Thanks!