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is that sarcasm?
anyone else?
No, seriously. It's a nice suit. Where'd you get it?
is that sarcasm?
anyone else?
I have no black shoes/black belts that aren't scuffed and decrepit. Are nice brown shoes (~$100) and brown belt ok to wear instead?
I have no black shoes/black belts that aren't scuffed and decrepit. Are nice brown shoes (~$100) and brown belt ok to wear instead?
Uh, not really, no. Appropriateness of dress has nothing to do with price. What's "appropriate" is to dress professionally and conservatively, whatever your budget is. Of course, you should purchase the best clothes you can reasonably afford, but I don't really see any point in spending a month's rent on a single fabulous suit unless you have an image problem....if you're already in the hole tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars, can't you afford to spend a grand or so to dress appropriately to start your professional career?...
Think different.
I plan on buying one of those life-sized cutouts of famous stars and taping it to my face, anterior chest, tummy, and thighs.
Behind the suave visage, I could wear whatever I want. Scrubs. My birthday suit. You know, as long as it covers my tushy.
Hmmm...he's not wearing a tie. You might get dinged for that.
True, true.
That and I don't want to show up to all my interviews with the same cardboard cutout. I'd be labelled as formulaic. Gotta mix it up.
Plan B:
3) Shirt rules - never, EVER wear a short-sleeve dress shirt with a tie. You look like a child molester. Nuff said.
Ha Ha...I missed the pocket square.
You see, men in America have come to see the suit jacket as optional. Much as they have decided that undershirts aren't required (I noticed you didn't mention this one, but its really a must under dress shirts. Especially if you are dark and hairy and especially if you will be sweating, say on an interview. And PLEASE get a white one, and not one with some Senor Frog's logo on it. ).
Well, I clearly don't know as much as you, but you know that men's clothes are often purchased for them by the women in their life.
I actually got my ex into it when we started shopping for suits for fellowship and then, job interviews. I directed him to Paul Smith, which I fancied as fun, but not too outre and he started really enjoying finer clothes. Ermenegildo Zegna has some nice stuff, but it just didn't fit him as well (too Italian slim cut) as the English designers did.
I sure hope his current GF appreciates all my hard work on that front!
Here's a cut and paste reply I wrote in another thread about men's fashion...
Fashion is one of my biggest hobbies (no, I'm not gay) so I'll chime in. THIS MAYBE A BIT LONG SO BARE WITH ME:
I generally prefer European designers over American ones b/c the former tend to make clothes that actually FIT people and usually very well. Believe it or not, most Americans wear their clothes TOO BIG. The philosophy here is "comfort" vs actually looking good. Which is fine if that's what floats your boat.
If you want to look good and not like you bought an $89 suit from Target then listen up:
1) Try your BEST not to wear a solid black suit. If you do, that's totally fine as most other interviewees will be wearing their funeral suits as well. It's the path of least resistance for some reason. However, I'd recommend you go for charcoal grey suit instead (as someone else pointed out earlier). If you get stripes just make sure they're subtle stripes and not bling bling mafioso stripes!
When looking for suits, look at the back of the blazer and see what kind of vent it has. Most American suits make their suit blazers with what I call "The Butt Crack Vent" (aka single-vent). Those are fine but the European DOUBLE VENTS (one on each side of the blazer) looks 1000x better and is more functional. How you ask? B/c when you put your hands in your pockets the single (or even worse, no vent) blazer bunches up and looks very very akward.
It will be close to IMPOSSIBLE for you to find a double-vented suit at places like Brookes Brothers (American designer) and Men's Warehouse. I mean no insult to the poster that works there but most European designers blow the socks off American suit designers. If money is tight (which I expect since we're all students) I recommend you try out discount/outlet stores. Check out Nordstorm Rack, Off Saks, Filenes Basement, etc. You will often find an $800 European suit on sale for $200.
2) White shirt is fine, especially b/c interviews are during the day (stay away from wearing white shirts at evening events, unless you're wearing a tux!). A nice blue shirt is actually what I'd recommend. It would look GREAT with a nice yellow/gold, red, or even pink tie (it has to be the right shade of pink...subtle yet powerful).
Unless you're overweight (these shirts look best on slender people), I'd recommend you try to buy a shirt with a SPREAD COLLAR. Again, most European designers make nothing but spread collar shirts. What's the difference you ask? It allows more room to tie a full windsor knot with your tie giving you a more confident look! If you don't know how tie a full windsor knot, google it. There are TONS of websites that show you how. It's a piece of cake actually.
However, if money is not object (you lucky bastard), then go to your nearest Thomas Pink store and buy a nice white or light blue shirt for ~$150-$200. If you're trying to keep your cost down, again, check out the discount/outlet stores for nice spread collar shirts. Often you can get a $200 shirt for ~$40-$60. If they're FRENCH CUFF, even better. Just keep the cuff-links subtle to avoid looking like a baller on med school interviews. Just make sure the collars FITS you. Nothing looks worse than someone who looks like they're wearing their dad's dress shirt. Size 15.5 neck but they're wearing a 17.5!
3) The most simple rule when it comes to ties is to try to match your tie with your shirt and/or suit (as one of the poster eluded to above). I agree. You can't go wrong using that approach. However, don't underestimate the POWER of your tie. Don't be afraid to buy a really nice RED or GOLD tie. Show your confidence WITH confidence! This would especially look good with a nice light blue shirt. If you feel like you're trying to be like someone you're not then don't sweat it. Buy something more subtle that you're more comfortable with. Again, discount/outlet stores all the way for ties. Brookes Brothers, though, does have a very wide selection of ties. So there, I'm not all against American designers!
4) Shoes- 2 rules. #1) Don't wear the same cluncky shoes you wear with your denim. #2) Make sure they're clean and shiny. If you want a new pair, Aldo has some decent dress shoes for ~$80-$130. Of course there are some Italian designers but neither you nor I can probably afford them right now!
Remember, THIS IS JUST MY OPINION. Flip through some fashion magazines when you get a chance or look around when you're at the mall next time. You'll see many of the concepts I talked about.
DOCTORSAIB...I'm not saying you're gay, but you should definitely try to get your own show on Bravo...
A couple of questions. Should I wear glasses or contacts (I've heard glasses make me look older, and for me this is probably a good thing)? And is the black Timex Ironman watch I wear everywhere ok, or is it better to wear no watch at all? I don't have a fancy watch.
it's hard to find shirts that fit your torso exactly.
am i supposed to look for "slim cut"?
i seem to never find these at dept stores
False sense of confidence with a bad sense of style = very resistant to change.
Remember the people interviewing you -- dorky PDs, dorky faculty or slightly less dorky residents
Put this in a medical context rather than a fashion one, and you've defined a problem resident. Perhaps I should pay more attention to fashion on interview day...
Now wait a second there... well, OK, I'm pretty dorky and have the fashion sense of a rock. But, I did score 41% on the Geek Test.
40.43393%
2.16963% - Poser
damn. I thought i looked the part too.
I guess i'm not good enough for residency