I agree. I love organic and I'm taking the second part right now and am in excellent standing thus far. A lot of my classmates are either getting C's or failing and I do not understand why. The whole course takes practice. It might seem like there is a lot to remember but if you think about it, everything in that class builds on chapter after chapter. Basically you should memorize all reactions and any exceptions that go with it. Then use what you know to synthesize products. The things you would probably bring with you from general chemistry are hybridize orbitals, formal charge, lewis dot structures, acid/base, and maybe dynamic equilibrium for lab purposes. I think it depends on the intructor but for mechanisms, we draw out step by step with arrow pushes and explain why. Same thing for the exceptions to reactions, my instructor was interested in why there are exceptions, why we must protect an alcohol when making a grignard reagent etc.. and a lot of the explaining deals with general chemistry.
If I could break the whole course down it would be nomenclature, structural formula, types of reactions, mechanisms, synthesis and interpreting graphical analysis such as IR spec and NMR. Like others have said, if you attack each section at a time and retain it then you should have no problem. I think people who make a fuss about it either hear others fuss which in turn makes it hard for them, or they just don't try at all. I hope this helps and good luck to you.
Tyler