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This is a vent thread, sorry guys. I just started restudying for this test again today. As someone who has been separated from college for sometime now (6 years), a lot of content has been long forgotten. Initially I studied (2 years ago) for the MCAT, which spanned for several months (like 8 total). It was a full time job for me. And despite scoring fairly well on practice tests, I bombed the real thing (scoring a 24). That was a huge hit to my confidence. It was also the last test of the year. I was separated from work at the time and was low on income, so rather than refocusing on a retake, I just stopped studying entirely (which in hindsight was a big mistake). Family kept telling me med school wasn't for me, etc. So I sort of gave up on that ambition for a while.
I also feel its worth mentioning I have a step-sibling who is my age and whose already in his residency, and as happy as I am for him, it does more to discourage me than motivate me. He's like the golden child of the family and I'm constantly reminded of my failures anytime he's around. Even facebook I avoid because most of my peers are well into their medical careers and here I am still working a 7-5 job (well 2 jobs). The only thing I have to show for my first attempt is gained weight (gained 35 pounds) ...meh. I went through a period of depression, but eventually just gave myself a big reality check and just learned to stop comparing myself. I still do from time to time, but it hasn't got to me as much because I stopped giving a damn (somewhat). Anyways, I temporarily left both of my jobs to focus on restudying for a second time...Only problem is, I'm having an incredibly difficult time finding motivation, especially because I know how hard I studied the first time. Plus, I know how much studying is involved and I know I have a long long & painful road ahead. How do re-takers deal with this? It's so frustrating. Plus I totally forgot everything, so it's not like it's review or anything. I mean, I remember some stuff, but I completely dumped nearly everything out of my brain after the first time I bombed.
What to do... what to do. Any words of encouragement or advice would be extremely helpful and appreciated
I also feel its worth mentioning I have a step-sibling who is my age and whose already in his residency, and as happy as I am for him, it does more to discourage me than motivate me. He's like the golden child of the family and I'm constantly reminded of my failures anytime he's around. Even facebook I avoid because most of my peers are well into their medical careers and here I am still working a 7-5 job (well 2 jobs). The only thing I have to show for my first attempt is gained weight (gained 35 pounds) ...meh. I went through a period of depression, but eventually just gave myself a big reality check and just learned to stop comparing myself. I still do from time to time, but it hasn't got to me as much because I stopped giving a damn (somewhat). Anyways, I temporarily left both of my jobs to focus on restudying for a second time...Only problem is, I'm having an incredibly difficult time finding motivation, especially because I know how hard I studied the first time. Plus, I know how much studying is involved and I know I have a long long & painful road ahead. How do re-takers deal with this? It's so frustrating. Plus I totally forgot everything, so it's not like it's review or anything. I mean, I remember some stuff, but I completely dumped nearly everything out of my brain after the first time I bombed.
What to do... what to do. Any words of encouragement or advice would be extremely helpful and appreciated
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