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Hi all,
So I've found myself in a very difficult position, and I have nobody to talk with that wouldn't be extremely biased in one way or another. Long story short, I have narrowed my school decision down to two schools: A top 20 that I thought was terrific, and a school ranked somewhere between 50-65 that my SO of 2.5 years currently attends.
I've given this a TON of thought and it stresses me out every.single.day yet I still cannot decide. On the one hand, T20 school will have better opportunities, connections, etc. On the other hand, I'd have more support at T50 school, plus an easier transition and personal mentor (Aka SO). A current MS3 at T50 that I've spoken with said that while she wouldn't recommend choosing T50 over T20, I'd probably have an easier time getting AOA since not many people are gunners at T50 (I am, I know it, I accept it). This also plays into the whole "fit" issue though - I'm afraid I won't fit in at T50
I know a lower tier school certainly doesn't close any doors for residency, but it's probably going to be a much harder fight - and I know I want to go into a more academic focused practice, so prestige does matter a bit more. I have nothing against T50 school, but if my SO wasn't there, I'd have already made my decision.
Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? Any thoughts/advice would be very helpful. Am I being completely unreasonable for not wanting to go to the same school as my SO?
So I've found myself in a very difficult position, and I have nobody to talk with that wouldn't be extremely biased in one way or another. Long story short, I have narrowed my school decision down to two schools: A top 20 that I thought was terrific, and a school ranked somewhere between 50-65 that my SO of 2.5 years currently attends.
I've given this a TON of thought and it stresses me out every.single.day yet I still cannot decide. On the one hand, T20 school will have better opportunities, connections, etc. On the other hand, I'd have more support at T50 school, plus an easier transition and personal mentor (Aka SO). A current MS3 at T50 that I've spoken with said that while she wouldn't recommend choosing T50 over T20, I'd probably have an easier time getting AOA since not many people are gunners at T50 (I am, I know it, I accept it). This also plays into the whole "fit" issue though - I'm afraid I won't fit in at T50
I know a lower tier school certainly doesn't close any doors for residency, but it's probably going to be a much harder fight - and I know I want to go into a more academic focused practice, so prestige does matter a bit more. I have nothing against T50 school, but if my SO wasn't there, I'd have already made my decision.
Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? Any thoughts/advice would be very helpful. Am I being completely unreasonable for not wanting to go to the same school as my SO?