Originally posted by merlin
Any more ideas? Not too popular a subject eh? Thanks much for all that info Lilycat. Much appreciated, but what about the student that is just generally displeased with the school? (Myself not at all included cause I haven't even started school yet). Cheers.
It might help to know a little more of the specifics of your situation (ie, what schools you are talking about, where you are currently planning on attending, etc.). If you feel uncomfortable discussing it further publicly, perhaps you can PM me and I can try to give you advice more specific to your situation or your school. Since you haven't started school yet, I'm curious what makes you already think that you'll dislike it and why you may need to transfer. I'm afraid that if you go into school with that attitude, it may unfairly negatively color your impressions throughout the first semester, if not the entire first year.
I did meet one applicant this year who had been accepted to medical school a couple of years ago, matriculated, hated it, dropped out (as opposed to "stopping out") and is now reapplying. He said that it has really been an uphill struggle because all of the med schools seem to share the opinion that it is a
privilege in and of itself just to be accepted to medical school in the first place. Thus, they tend to be wary of people who have been accepted and don't take it. Given, this is only one person's experience, and I think most of the "advice" you will receive on this subject, especially on these boards, is pretty anecdotal. However, it does make you strongly wonder if it is a gamble worth taking.
In all honesty, the only transfer students that I actually know all had "valid" reasons for transferring (usually because of their spouse). I know a couple of students who are somewhat unhappy with their medical schools but they've basically taken the attitude of just sucking it up and making the best of things while they are there. I have one good friend who is a 4th year now and never really liked his school from the start -- didn't feel like he fit in with most of the students, didn't make a lot of close friends in his class, didn't like the location or a lot of the profs, etc. A couple of things saved him -- 1) his girlfriend lived with him for the first 2 years so that gave him a social outlet outside of school; 2) He said that things really improved once he started his clinical rotations -- he really enjoyed the freedom of it, and he started hanging out with a lot of the residents and fellows from his rotations, which turned out to be people he felt he had more in common with than this fellow classmates.
As for general unhappiness at med school, I think it's more common than people imagine. The image that gets conveyed on interview days and weekends tends to be a little more perky at many schools than the actual day-in, day-out reality. That's not to say that all medical students are miserable -- far from it. But, students will sugar-coat some of the bad stuff or their displeasure with aspects of the school for the benefit of interviewees. In talking with med students at lots of other schools (mostly friends from high school and undergrad and a few friends from this site as well), those that get pretty unhappy with med school or frustrated with it, tend to be unhappy or frustrated for many of the same reasons. What I'm trying to say is that med schools really are not that fundamentally different from one another. Essentially, you have a small group of high-achieving, type A students all together several hours of a day. At every school there are cliques, gunners, slackers, unresponsive administrators, lame professors, great professors, mean attendings, great attendings, etc. Sure, each school has its own unique personality, but I think there are more constants to all the med schools than there are differences. You might think that transferring will be the solution to all your problems, but depending on what your issues with the school are, things may not change or improve that drastically.
Also keep in mind that for most people, the first two years are the most distasteful of medical school. Most people I've talked to say that the first year is by far the worst, and that it progressively gets better from there.
Right now, my best advice would be to try and give your school a fair chance -- you may end up being pleasantly surprised. I believe the AAMC website has a link to all the schools in the country that accept transfers, and from there you can access each school's specific transfer policy if that is something you still wish to pursue. .
Also, as bikini princess mentioned, many schools allow you to do up to 3 months of rotations during your clinical years at other schools. Plus, many schools structure their 4th year schedules so that most of the spring is free. Hopefully little things like that will help you get through if transferring doesn't work out.