we just got back from vacation and received the official alternate email. if there is anyone out there in cyberspace who has received an acceptance since april first, i would appreciate it if you would share because- now this is just a presumption- but it appears that no one has been invited since the initial round, despite the information that has been shared with us. again, this is just a presumption, but based on the thousands of views this thread has, let alone the "official acceptances 2014" page or the "final decisions" announcement section, i would like to think that there would be some activity since the first. i am also wondering if anyone was rejected... if they can even afford to officially reject anyone... based on how late their international acceptances are and given their own statements that they exhaust a good deal of their list. has anyone been rejected? i am guessing we won't hear anything until after the 30th deadline, and i wouldn't be surprised if it was a little while after the 30th.
pei students- i hearts you. you guys are wonderful- very attentive and helpful... i just want to throw that out there first. i am not referring to the students at all; but i am going to admit that i am really kind of disappointed by how the school has handled this. the interview process was so personal, everyone was so friendly, everyone seemed to Care. waiting to hear back is a given, so that didn't bother me. what bothered me was not keeping us informed at all. we were told would hear around beginning of april. those who were accepted were told around the beginning of april. we didn't hear anything officially until the end of april. those who were accepted didn't even receive their information for weeks! when we inquired with a $3,240 issue and asked whether or not he had been accepted, rejected, or wait-listed, we got the same generic response that everyone else received. now, i understand the issue of showing favoritism, but she could have at least Acknowledged our lease issue. i also think that letting know his status would have been nice too so we could know where we stand a little before trying to figure out where to live, but... right now there is a lease renewal form on my kitchen table, and if he gets in we are going to have to figure out how to move from the midwestern US to atlantic canada, pay tuition/down payment, get a mortgage and buy a house or find a new place to rent... and for kicks find $3,240 to throw at out landlord because we couldn't give proper notice. we also have a baby, so it's not like we can pick up and move 3 days before school starts- which apparently happened last year.
another issue- we will be paying for his schooling on our own, as i am sure many of you will be. i have yet to find a more expensive international student tuition rate... i am guessing that there is another one out there... but $49,000 in tuition alone is a Lot of money. vet medicine is a labor of love anymore anyways as the schooling is So expensive. why should our family go into nearly $200,000 in debt in student loans alone? if the school doesn't even care enough to keep us informed after we dumped around $2,000 into the application/interview process... why should we pay $49,000 a year to go there? what is the incentive to attend if it isn't care?
i am a musician. i originally went to music school before i got my el ed degree. when i had my initial music school auditions/interviews my teacher said, "remember, they might be auditioning you, but you are also auditioning them". that stuck with me, and this treatment just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
it's pretty obvious who i am if you put the pieces together, i know that. this wasn't my interview though, it was my husband's. veterinary medicine is his dream, not mine... and this is most likely his last chance. i hope my words don't impact his acceptance, but i am just so tired of this. i am hurt that after so much time, money and effort, he is so expendable. and i know applicants are a dime a dozen, but a little respect and consideration wouldn't hurt- especially if that is what you claim distinguishes your school from the rest. it's just so hard having seen him work for this for years, only to get treated this way... (and i know the rest of you have also worked hard for years, please don't be sad at me! just venting!) i feel like this issue needs to be acknowledged. i feel like all of the applicants, accepted and wait-listed alike deserve an apology... and i really hope this doesn't happen again in 2011, 2012, 2013...
this is his dream, but pei itself has been our dream for years. we wanted our son to grow up there. we wanted him to attend their schools... we wanted to ultimately try and make canada our permanent home. and please excuse this little sob story, but we have had so many sad things happen to us over the last several years, i just wanted something to go right, (aside from having the most perfect baby in the world of course!
) something positive that we could share. we wanted to finally start our lives and create a stable future for our family... and i know everyone has their own story, i don't want to detract from everyone else's... again, i am just venting! please bear with me, i am just sad.
sorry to be a real downer. good luck to everyone, and congrats to those who were accepted! and hopefully we all hear back soon. please don't be offended anyone, i just felt that this needed to be said.