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Though I would be all over a lemonade and lumpia night as well.Srsly.
If it was called, "lemonade and liverwurst" I'd be much less inclined to go.
Though I would be all over a lemonade and lumpia night as well.Srsly.
If it was called, "lemonade and liverwurst" I'd be much less inclined to go.
Though I would be all over a lemonade and lumpia night as well.
I think I may steal that for a party idea.
Agreed. If a program has a high contingent of married residents and students, then spouses are more likely to be thought of and included. It sounds as if the OP's husband is not in one of those programs.
Not a resident yet, but I'm married and in my 30s, and I agree with this. I really doubt the residents invited him over for tequila, tacos, advice and sex (the tequila and tacos part sounds pretty good though). For what it's worth, almost any time I've been invited to something and asked if my husband can tag along the answer was an enthusiastic "sure!" And a good chunk of the time, everyone talks about med school and he's bored. The reverse is true when I'm the +1 to his work events.
More likely scenarios are:
1) OP is actually invited but it was never explicitly said because residents didn't think they even needed to mention it
2) OP is actually invited but it was never explicitly said because residents are socially awkward
3) OP isn't NOT invited, but all of the senior residents are single so it didn't occur to them spouses might want to come
4) OP isn't NOT invited, but the residents didn't mention it because it really is more advice than tequila and they figured she'd be bored
5) OP isn't invited for the same reason as #4
6) OP may or may not be invited, but the conversation wasn't clear and husband is too awkward to actually ask
7) OP isn't invited because the residents figured she would be bored and didn't realize it would be awkward to not include her
Just don't invite any married interns, you being a single female and all.I think I just decided on the theme of my first apartment warming soirée. I don't even like straight tequila but I can get behind a massive taco bar. And margaritas. Sounds like a good post boards plan.
Just don't invite any married interns, you being a single female and all.
Yeah, I guess we all knew it was late because that is when everyone is done but good to verbalize that for the op.Sounds like a completely normal (and fun) orientation dinner for the new interns.
The one thing other posters haven't addressed that OP mentioned was the timing of the dinner late at night. To outsiders this may seen a little unusual or even unprofessional however in residency many rotations have you working till 6 or maybe even 7 at night and having an early dinner is just not possible or practical. In their case having the interns over for food and drinks at 8 might be the only time the residents can meet up and talk after work.
That reminds me, my husband evidently believes a cougar is just a woman of a certain age (rather than an older woman who seeks out younger guys) so he refers to me as one on occasion. I keep telling him that if he insists on calling me one I might just have to act like one.Damn such easy prey too. From one budding cougar to an alpha female, when do I get to call myself a true cougar?
The criteria are:Damn such easy prey too. From one budding cougar to an alpha female, when do I get to call myself a true cougar?
The criteria are:
age over 35 (some say 40)
prey usually 10 years younger than you
My advice to you is not to go 10 years younger than your age because I have found that most men in that age group are still in the "hey you wanna see my new bong" phase. Late 20s is when it starts to change in most cases.
Good luck!
I'd add a minimum effort requirement to be a true Cougar.The criteria are:
age over 35 (some say 40)
prey usually 10 years younger than you
My advice to you is not to go 10 years younger than your age because I have found that most men in that age group are still in the "hey you wanna see my new bong" phase. Late 20s is when it starts to change in most cases.
Good luck!
You made me bellow out loud, laughing on that one, TG!
So, help me understand what is unprofessional about this? Is there an ethics violation?
Appears to be more about marital issues than a professional issue.