Originally posted by arteg
I beleive that personal attitude & the way you deal with your patients make a big difference...
this isn't due to difference in academic or practical skills,it's just because he doesn't give a damn to that "human touch" .. this means less interest of patients to be treated by this guy. does it make any sense or I'm talking like if I were reading the script of a movie??!!
Little anecdote for you... (I agree with you)
One of the guys in my class is just, quite simply, brilliant. He studies as much as anyone else in our class, if not more. He is a 4.0 student and will graduate with honors. One of the proctors during our recent "orals" for intro to clinical medicine told him, in front of a group of people, that attempting to grade him "was a waste of time for the faculty" because he knew the stuff so cold. For the life of me, I can't figure out why he did not get an admission to U.S. medical school, but was probably one of those guys on the cusp.
But - here's the catch...
I can already see the "blossoming" of the arrogant,
I'm-smarter-than-you-therefore-I'm-better-than-you mentality in this guy. A lot of people change when they go to medical school, especially when they find that they are "naturals" and this stuff comes easier for them than it appears to for their colleagues. Some people just tend to work faster through the learning curve.
Humility is something that is hard to teach to certain people. Usually, the way this is done in medical school (and has been my experience so far) is that the faculty will ask questions of you until you can no longer answer them. Some people, for whatever reason, seem to already know as much as the faculty does on a particular subject. So, the humility training doesn't work. This breeds arrogance in the individual. And, before you know it, he's talking to everyone like they are beneath him. Yes... I've seen this happen, haven't we all?
I admonish anyone reading this to understand the take home message here, and what was echoed in arteg's post: it doesn't matter where you do your training - it's ultimately what kind of person you are. That's what people see. That's what matters. Learn and remember to be respectful, patient, and tolerant of others who may not be as intelligent as you are. Don't believe so much in yourself that you think you know everything. You are asking for trouble if you do so.