It's definitely a personal thing for you. You seem to be judging veterans more harshly than others. There are people from all walks that try to scam the system, whether it's VA or Medicare, or SS disability or workers comp or etc....
When you're on the job as a VA doc, you really don't get into this with patients. At least I don't. Whether you are a war hero or you never left training, it has zero bearing on how I will treat you.
Sometimes people want to talk about their service and I try to be a good listener. Some complain about what seems like minor pain. Others don't complain about what seems like major pain. I'm not there to judge whether you are a hero or a coward, it's all about how I can help (or not).
All disability and compensation/pension issues are NMD (not my department). I don't even determine if an injury is "service connected".
Am I virtue signalling now? lol
VA fraud is outrageous and has spiraled out of control bc of the climate surrounding the GWoT in hopes this generation doesn't get spit on like the Vietnam generation.
The Vietnam era vets are the most dysfunctional dudes in that entire system, far inferior to their predecessors of WWII and Korea, and far inferior to their successors who went to Afghanistan and Iraq.
Much of the problems are not of their own making.
Society treated them poorly in general but the overwhelming majority of VA pts you see wearing Vietnam baseball caps claiming PTSD and battle scars NEVER took part in any of the things you think they took part in...
So why do I (tax paying man) have to pay 4k per month for a disability rating on a 71 yo cigarette smoker with peripheral neuropathy, A1C of 11, and a GFR 35? Why does that individual and his spouse get housebound benefits on top of his disability rating?
How is the VA (me - the tax payer) on the hook for that?
Why does a dude who served 4 warm/dry years in the Army get 4k per month of my money when he did nothing other than have a regular job that required green clothes?
I know individuals personally that scam the VA for THOUSANDS of dollars per month while working full time jobs.
To the other guy - Nothing I've said should be construed as my trying to be "Dr Badass." That is utterly false and has nothing to do with anything.
I am telling you those Nam vets were pogues with dry socks, and my personality can't handle the dishonesty and fraud.