Originally posted by lady in red:
•Jessica,
as far as having nasty PI, I think that comes with the territory. I mean, if it is THEIR research, and they depend on it for promotions, pubs, grants, so on, many of them will totally disregard what your own goals are, and treat you like their lab slave. And if you are good, they will hold on to you forever. I am in a similar situation now; while I am on good terms with the PI, he thinks that I should be in the lab 24/7 and think of nothing else but his research. I was going to take a class in the spring (3 units)and volunteer, but now scared to mention it because he will think it will detract me from concentrating on his experiments. i don't DARE to mention medical school or applications or anything like that.
I don't know if its the same everywhere though (i am doing research in stanford), but I feel stressed out more than when i was in school and like I am always being watched and judged.•••
This is not the same everywhere. I had a PI when I first went to USC that turned on her whole lab. She fired people, wrote me and the other grad student up and made a list of requirements we were to achieve (can't check email, need to be in at least 50 hours a week, et al). Our work was progressing, but for some reason she snapped. She even asked us both to leave her lab. Well, six months later she left for the NIH and closed her lab. I still put her down as a reference though. The lab I switched to is much better. The PI knows that you can't do lab work 24/7 and even supported my going to the East Coast for two weeks for medical school interviews.
Anyhoos, I doubt the medcial schools are going to ask your ECs for a character analysis. They probaby just want to see that you were there and that you did the work and did it well. The email to my PI was probably just to see if I'd finish my PhD by August.
Andrew