When building my new practice I've terminated quite a few patients. As time went by less terminations cause I started getting a more reliable patient population cause the bad ones were pruned off.
I don't feel bad in pretty much all the terminations. E.g. 1 person failed to show up 3x, I let her go the no show fee once, she changed her phone number and never told us so when we called her she never answered, when we finally got her new phone number she didn't set up her VM so we couldn't leave messages...yada yada yada.
I offered to have her SKYPE my office cause she told me transportation was sometimes a problem. She still didn't show up for the SKYPE call.
You think I'm going to feel bad about this? It's not my fault.
In hindsight some of those people I terminated lessened my liability. Non-compliant patients are riskier patients especially if off meds they known to have severe symptoms. If someone, for example is non-compliant, has a bad outcome (and it's not your fault but theirs) sometimes their friends, families, even the patients themselves want to blame you. All they can think of is bad outcome + doctor = doctor's fault. Yeah you'll win if it goes to court but who wants to waste them time? If you terminate and do it the right way (follow the state's rules, gave them chances) well they're out of sight and now out of mind. It's over you don't have to worry about it anymore.
I don't terminate patients easy. I give chances but after they've failed the chances-3 strikes you're out and I don't feel bad nor will feel bad on my end for me. I will feel bad in the sense that the patient could've done better but it's their responsibility, not mine, to at least follow the directions.