Mary,
Just to show that everything's relative:
I graduated from BU (SAR) -- BS '87 and MS '89. I applied there, for nostalgia's sake, I suppose, for med school. Got a letter back that said they had received over 10,000 applications for maybe 60 spots (after 6 yr med and other "pre-allocated" spots are subtracted). After trying to get in to a US school for 4 years, spending a lot of time/effort/$$, and not succeeding, then uprooting and moving to Mexico to pursue "the dream," any US school, even BU, would seem like paradise. I am happy with what I have done (left the US and lived for 3 years in another culture, developed my Spanish skills, scored well on Step 1), but would gladly trade BU's crap for the other, international hassles my compa?eros and I have gone through.
Also, just to show that nothing's changed: my classmates and I also thought BU's administration seemed not to care. When John Silber was pres ("in my day"), they would do things like videotape all of us at the apartheid demonstrations. Shades of paranoia?
Final note: these days I occasionally go to the Alumni Association's website and look at the Marsh Chapel Plaza restoration project through the "Live Plaza Cam" ... sigh.