I can't find a citation, but does anyone recall that study that claimed married men were happier than married women?
I DO remember reading that MULTIPLE studies across demographics confirmed that married men were happier and healthier than married women. As I remember, married men were first, then single women, then single men, and then married women. I also remember reading that this was because married women, even in this age of "equality" STILL do more of the household work and have more responsibility for childcare.
Speaking to the original question: I am an UNmarried woman with a Ph.D., close to being a licensed psychologist, living with my "boyfriend" for almost 8 years, with a 5 month old son.
I think four main things contribute to why woman with Ph.D.s in psychology are not as likely to marry: 1) We don't "need" to be married in order to pay the bills or gain an identity/social role, we find self-worth, purpose, and income through our careers, 2) many men are threatened by women that are more intelligent, more educated, and/or more successful, and avoid them as partners, 3) woman that care about such things as being married would also be expected to want to fulfill the norm that they marry at, or above, their social status... which gets harder the more you achieve, so the pool of potential partners shrinks, and 4) women, like myself, with high student loan debt, find that, if they marry, their spouses' income is combined with theirs and they would not be able to afford their income contingent student loan payments!!! Sad, but true!
I would be interested to see a study reporting the rates of women with Ph.D.s in psychology that are in "long term, live-in, committed relationships" vs. "married". We may not be getting married, but that doesn't mean we have not joined with another, committed to another, started a family, and such. It just means that we haven't gone through the legal hoop!
In my case... I joined with my guy based on shared interests, not shared degrees, and, though we would like to marry, it is not possible mainly for financial reasons. Yet, we are still committed to each other and raising a family together. Is THAT circumstance factored into these studies?