sweetbunny
There is female interventional cardiologist in my academic cardiology program. she also has a baby. She had the baby before doing interventional fellowship...was doing a "chief year"/extra year of cardio fellowship.
Her husband is an ER doc. So a 2 doc family, they make it work. However, she does have parents-in-law in town. I think the hours and duties will vary with private practice vs. academics, and where you want to work. For example, some Veterans hospitals have cath labs that do interventions, but not on nights or weekends. Our VA actually has an excellent cath lab (I know you are all thinking, "no way!", but they are). Attending there is a man who is GREAT and the techs and nurses are great also. I do think such a job would have better hours than what the previous poster is describing. Still, you have to realize that with cardiology (especially interventional) you will take call, and more call than some other specialties.
I think question #1
-Do you want to do cardiology or surgery?
then question #2 would be
-If cardiology, then is it general, electrophys, interventional, imaging, etc.
I wouldn't ditch cardiology (either general or interventional) because you think you can't do it because you are a woman. General surgery is not easy either...you have to work hard at either of those two fields.
I didn't mean to offend with my "glass ceiling" comment, but I do stand by it. I have been quite successful and so have some other women in cardiology, but I also know that cards and some other fields within medicine still tend to be harder for women to enter and some people (not only physicians but some others too) harbor prejudices about what are "appropriate" jobs for women to have and make assumptions about women docs and women applicants for fellowship/residency that are based on prejudices and not on facts. I think this will continue for several more years, but already it is getting better and better.