In psychiatry interpersonal dynamics are so important I guess the OP is asking about how being female alters those dynamics. She mentioned worrying about violence-- I can see how some patients might be more hesitant to hit me (over six feet tall and two hundred pounds) than a woman, and I can also see how many people who would deck me any day would always try to hold back on a woman. People might also be more or less comfortable talking about their personal lives, their sexual problems, their emotions, etc with either gender. Stuff like that.
I imagine that it will change given the fact that women are coming to be the majority in many areas of higher education, but most of the women I have met entering into scientific and mathematical disciplines that have traditionally been seen as male are more conscious about whether their gender will affect their professional lives. I don't think there is anything wrong with asking about that.
To the OP, I have worked with several female psychiatrists and gender did not seem to play a big role. I would bet that most of the female psychiatrists at your med school would be glad to talk to you about the topic, it could be worth asking.