Some additional thoughts on the matter...
I agree with Mango - it is obvious that some people are able to work during medical school and do well. Many people, myself included, are able to have several projects going at once. And I also had several classmates who worked during the first two years - however, that isn't a fair comparison because in a PBL curriculum you are only in class approx. 20 hrs per week and the rest of the time is yours as you please.
It is NOT about the hours though, IMHO. Being a single mother IS A JOB but single or not, these mothers are spending their extra time AT HOME WITH THEIR CHILDREN. Abbeydesert is proposing spending time away from the family. If she were single, I'd say "Go for it", you'll only have yourself to worry about. But she has made a commitment to a marriage and to another person. Medical school IS notoriously stressful on a marriage - couple it with an extra 10 hours away from her husband while at work - only adds to the stress and lessens her enjoyment of life and her marriage, IMHO. If I were her husband, I'd want her to be able to spend as much time after hours and on weekends with me as possible. Then again, who knows - maybe he's working too?!
Baylor21 - no one expects you to give up your extracurriculars during medical school. As a matter of fact, doing something interesting can give you an edge during residency applications. On the whole people probably do do less than before medical school but many students are still active in an athletic league, working with AMSA, doing research or any number of other projects. There probably are medical students who do nothing but study 130 hours per week and sleep the remaining 38 hours; I've never met any - just lots of people who exaggerate the amount of studying and time it takes!
I don't doubt that Abbeydesert *could* find the 10-20 hours per week to work if she wanted. Heck, as everyone knows, I certainly spend at least 10 hours per week here most weeks. It is always possible to find extra time in the week - but SOMETHING will have to be sacrificed.
My issue is this: why work when she would be depriving herself of time for extracurricular activities, time with her husband and time for daily chores like eating, showering, grocery shopping, exercising, and watching tv?
If she were able to work during the day that would be great. However, IMHO she is going to come home from school, want to do some studying and extracurricularing, including spending time with her husband. If she wants to work fine - I'm sure she COULD do it and still maintain her grades. But I think the sacrifices would not be worth the financial gain.
[This message has been edited by kimberlicox (edited March 26, 2001).]
[This message has been edited by kimberlicox (edited March 26, 2001).]