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I changed my name. For a while, I tried to keep my maiden name professionally but that soon got complicated. So, now I'm [first name] [married name] across the board.
It's also unlikely that I will get married. Most single women my age are single because they treat men like crap, and I refuse to be some married woman's meal ticket. And I'm not interested in men, so that doesn't leave much.
These should be on leno. lol
As for me, though, I think it has just as much if not more to do with the nomadic existence I've been leading since I graduated from college. Combine that with the fact that I like to take things slowly, and that I don't figure any guy into my plan unless there's a commitment between us, and that's an entirely sufficient explanation for still being single, despite being a basically good and reasonably attractive person.
I changed my name when I got married and my daughters have that last name.
I want to go by Dr. MaidenName, though. I have no idea how to do this. For licensing purposes, it looks like your ID, SSN names all need to match. So I actually think if I do this, I need to change my name back!! Weird, huh?
I want to be Mrs. MarriedName for everything the way I am now - except for work. There are several reasons, but frankly I just like my maiden name better. It's easier to pronounce. And I don't want patients to be able to find my home number in the phone book, but my married name is uncommon and my husband needs to have his name listed for his job.
Has anyone ever changed their name back (and not because of a divorce! LOL)? I have no idea where to start with this. I'm starting medical school in August - should I do it before I matriculate (I applied with my current, legal married name), after I graduate, after residency??
I'm surprised no one here has addressed the sexist resonance of the (western) "tradition" of taking one's husband's last name.
Most women do the baby care and house cleaning... seems like good marketing. What's the problem?I will NOT be keeping my maiden name when I get married.
Call me traditional, but even as an MD I will be perfectly happy to be "Dr. and Mrs. Husband's Name".
However, I am VERY annoyed by all those house cleaning product and baby product commercials that are SO specific to WOMEN. I feel that this is much more insulting than a name-change at marriage... IMO.
There is no need to insult other users because you do not share their viewpoint.
I am currently planning on NOT changing my last name. I'm Mrs. "husband's last name" for all intents and purposes, BUT I would still like to be Dr. "Maiden name". Is that odd?
In the US, it is completely up to the parents what name a child gets. You could name the kid Tax Deduction and they wouldn't be able to stop you (please don't though ).
Huh? I took my wife's last name when we got married, and I'm going into medicine. What would one possibly have to do with the other?Well, I guess if you are the kind of person to pursue medicine, then I suppose you are also the type of person who isn't gonna change your last name no matter what.
Why is this name change thing such an ordeal? So many people here seem very insecure about changing their name... as indicated by the copious forms of rationalization implemented by various posters.
Just change it or don't change it. It's not really a complicated matter and doesn't really need any justification. Saying that you "didn't work this hard to be called Dr. [husband's name]" makes you sound like a smug dimwit. Also, hyphenated names are the most idiotic thing ever created and basically represent a woman who is a tool of society (i.e. she wants to retain her identy but isn't secure enough in herself to stand by her sentiments). It's not nearly as big an issue as you all make it out to be and anyone who thinks otherwise must still be wearing lime-green coat-tails to work with calf implants hidden beneath their socks.
What I don't get is why some guys actively care if their wife changes their lastname...I've met guys who are interested in intelligent, ambitious women but are bothered by the idea that she might not change her name. And it's not like they're looking to "own" anyone.
For some I think its traditional values which I can understand as well. But my desire to be Dr. Maiden Name is a little more than the traditional desire to have my husbands last name so I compromised and now I have both!What I don't get is why some guys actively care if their wife changes their lastname...I've met guys who are interested in intelligent, ambitious women but are bothered by the idea that she might not change her name. And it's not like they're looking to "own" anyone.
well technically that is still a change, albeit minorI will add husband's last name to mine
Hello.
Also, it maybe a bad idea to change your name - cause if you have done any research in the past, then academia will give you grief when you try to cite the research work that you did.