I will point out from this end that if a student does not appear enthusiastic (not manic, just interested in learning) they are not invited to extra cases/interesting consults/procedures... maybe some residents dragged you around, but we really don't have time to do that. On the other hand, I have let medical students dissect, sew, help place lines and chest tubes, etc. if they demonstrate an interest in surgery.
Agree that there are basics everyone should know, and we work hard to teach them in a formalized manner as well as in the course of roungds/OR, etc.
Usually we do this, but we have been bitten when students report in their evals that we "did not involve them" because we said they could leave even though something might happen later. We can't please everyone, and for sure, there are terrible rotations in all specialties out there. Like I said before, bottom line is teaching will be what you put into it, and what the student wants to get out of it.
A couple of examples from this side:
1. I had a student who, for an entire month (without exception, it was morbid to watch) would show up on OR days, enter the hospital, change into scrubs, scrub at the scrub sink, and enter the room ready to have the nurse dress her. It does not take a rocket scientist to see what is missing here... rounding, meeting resident/attending, reading the chart, introducing yourself to the patient, helping set up the room, getting your own gloves... I tried over and over the explain this, to no avail.
2. Some students only show up for morning report or for the first case, or for lunch. We have had several in the last year, who despite prompts, offer of assistance, etc, refuse to see patients whose operations they observed.
3. I had one who I told about a case a week in advance, and reminded him several times that it was approaching. That day, we were discussing the disease process, and it only took one or two questions to be clear that he had not read, so I asked him, "did you read for this case?". "No." I asked why not, and the answer was something like, "oh, I just didn't think about it."
4. Had another who, two weeks into rounding with the team on every patient, asked why our patient (with a colovesical fistula) had stool in her foley bag. It's a good question if you are not clear on the disease process, except that I had spent time explaining it on his first day, and he never asked any questions (or read apparently).
I remember being a student frustrated with teachers, but your teachers see all kinds too. Just treat your students as you wanted to be treated and you should do fine. Sorry for the rant.
Oooh, and I forgot some of the truly disrespectful comments we have heard, like the student who told an attending he could shove it up his a** if he thought the student would go do something.... story for another time.