Here's a few others:
(1) A patient you find extremely attractive invites you to dinner. What do you do? Does it matter if the course of treatment has ended or your rotation on that service has ended?
(2) an ailing wealthy geriatric patient decides you are the only one he trusts, and wants to add you to his will.
(3) you run into your diabetic heart patient at McDonalds, super sizing it in a big way. Do you say anything or just nod "wassup" and keep moving.
(4) your fragile psych patient who doesn't handle rejection well tries to friend you on Facebook.
(5) while a med student on rotation, your attending is adamant about a course of treatment for patient that conflicts with something you just learned in class.
More interesting ethical questions
1. A now demented patient with multi-organ failure appointed his live-in assistant (not a relative) as his health care proxy and his heir several years ago. He also signed a living will indicating he wanted no heroic measures at end of life and the assistant , who stands to inherit a lot wants to comply. Family opposes this. They turn to you for guidance.
2. Bi-sexual having high risk sex and using recreational IV drugs doesn't want you to breach confidentiality and talk to spouse. What do you do?
3. Nineteen year old patient confides in you that he thinks of killing his parents but insists he'd never do anything. His father is a police officer and there is at least one gun in the house. Do you tell parents? Take action somehow?
4. Patient in chronic pain wants you to administer dangerous and possibly lethal level of narcotics. Do you do it?
5. Potential Kidney donor is cleared to donate but is having second thoughts about donating. Wants you to lie for her as to why she won't give her sister a kidney.
6. A dad finds out he has Huntingtons. Doesn't want to tell his children, ages 19 and 21, who are in college that they are at risk of also carrying this genetic condition.
I'll try my hand at these (feel free to critique my responses as I am soon to be in the interview stage of things). Of course, if the law is a certain way, you should comply with the law. Depending on the state, the following answers might change.
First,
@Law2Doc (the 1-5):
1) I would politely decline as well. I don't want to have my practice implicated by claims of lack of professionalism. However, I don't think I would judge a colleague as harshly if several years after they had a patient, they started dating as compared to if they started dating while still in the doctor patient relationship, which I think could be taking advantage of a power imbalance. I wouldn't do it myself either way.
2) Again politely decline, as I wouldn't want to take advantage of my relationship with him. I would talk with him about his different options, whether he would want to give the money to his relatives or to charity. If it made him feel better, he could donate to charity in my name.
3) I wouldn't make any judgments about the patient, who knows they could be suffering from depression or an addictive personality, and it is not my place to judge him in public either. I might bring up diet in the next consultation in the context of proper management of diabetes and heart conditions.
4) This one's tough... I might wait on the friend request until I saw the patient in clinic, and then explain that to keep a professional relationship, I didn't have patients on Facebook as friends, but that we could certainly be friends in real life, and then say that is more important anyways.
5) Talk to the attending privately, and make your case as to why you think you are right. If you buy the attending's explanation, then go with that, if not, involve more doctors and ask for more opinions, because ultimately the patient's welfare is the most important thing. You could explain the patient's situation to the professor who had just taught you without mentioning names of course, and see what they thought.
On to
@LizzyM 's questions:
1) I think the lawyers would have to settle this one and would advise the family to go to a lawyer, and they would need to try to find out the mental status of the patient at time of signing that will. I feel like if he did do it while competent, then I would comply as for me, the patient's preferences come first when they do not directly negatively affect others.
2) First, I would counsel the patient to tell the spouse of these high risk behaviors, emphasizing that he is not the only one who could be suffering. If after this and I am legally able to tell the spouse, I would. I would do so because if she engages in high risk behavior she could be spreading the disease, and this develops into a public health issue, where I need to prioritize the public. I personally feel like she has a right to know as well.
3) I think you probe how much of a desire it is, and whether there is a plan associated with it. If so, you try to get a psych hold on this individual. If not, set up a network of people willing to help, perhaps getting therapy to help talk through these issues.
4) If I felt it was a dangerous level of narcotics, I wouldn't prescribe it. There are the issues of addiction and dependance that come into this one, and I wouldn't want to enable a dangerous habit. At the same time, I would want to alleviate the pain that is present, so I would give as much as I could that would not exacerbate the problem.
5) Nope, that is her responsibility. I am not going to lie for her. I might talk to her about why she has second thoughts though.
6) Assuming he is of competent mind, that seems like a tough choice for him, and while I might counsel him to tell his children, ultimately I would respect his decision. The difference between this and the risky behavior situation is that there is nothing he or his children can do to alleviate that risk of developing Huntington's. I will admit however, that I don't know if there are early interventions that can reduce the risk of developing Huntington's. If so, I would strongly counsel him to tell his children. If not, it's kind of like the question, if you could know when you were going to die, would you want to know.