I generally don't use SpaceOAR in high risk with nodes for two reasons:
1) I don't like SpaceOAR in high risk, no matter what. In patients where there is an increased risk of EPE, I cannot logically justify procedurally manipulating the area and potentially mixing microscopic disease into a gel which I'm trying to not include in my PTV. It just makes no sense to me.
2) While there's probably SOME benefit you could see on a DVH, if you're contouring nodes per consensus guidelines, I don't think this DVH benefit will definitively translate to a clinically meaningful benefit.
It obviously depends on your environment though. I know some academic departments where it's currently the cultural norm to do SpaceOAR on literally everyone, so perhaps you need to do it to survive chart rounds. I'm not in such an environment, so I get zero pushback for electing to not place SpaceOAR if I don't feel it's warranted.