For those following my saga, I resigned from my program 2 weeks ago. I am back teaching at the same high school again as last year. The surprised look on teachers and the principals face was something - I spent a good bit of the day explaining to people.
Anyway, I requested a copy of my file from my program, and part of my official file was a copy of EVERY thank you letter I wrote - to faculty and residents alike. Ex. one resident (PGY2 this year) that I really liked is a confirmed bachelor (even though he is engaged now..???) anyway, I wrote a somewhat humorous note to him saying something like "See the paper this is written on? This is another reason to get married. Its called stationary. If I was single I would be writing this thank you note on an 8 X 11 piece of typing paper, but because I am married I am using pretty stationary. Thanks for the interview and would love to be there for residency". That is not the exact note but roughly the length and content. It was in my permenant file. I think I wrote something like 9 thank you letters and they were all in there.
Just a word to your mother....