Med students with kids

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iamgoaloriented

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During the interview process I have met several people who are not only married and attending medical school, but they have children! Can you imagine that?

That's quite a lot of responsibility and time management.

To all of you parents out there, you deserve all the recognition in the world, and might also find this amusing (I promise that it is not from the onion, nor is it an "ate my balls" page...

Make sure you check pages 1 and 2
 
iamgoaloriented said:
To all of you parents out there, you deserve all the recognition in the world, and might also find this amusing[/URL]
:laugh: I sometimes imagine that's what the adcoms are doing to with our applications. :laugh:
 
Thank you! I've been a single mother for 10 years, and yes it's a tough road. But you make things work, if you really want it. Oh, and my sister sent me that link some time ago. It is pretty funny!
 
Khenon said:
Thank you! I've been a single mother for 10 years, and yes it's a tough road. But you make things work, if you really want it. Oh, and my sister sent me that link some time ago. It is pretty funny!

You're welcome. It is quite a feat, that is for sure. Yet there are pre med students out there who whine and complain about their schoolwork when they don't even have so much as a job.

That guys entire website is hilarious. Have you ever checked out the rest of it?
 
iamgoaloriented said:
During the interview process I have met several people who are not only married and attending medical school, but they have children! Can you imagine that?

That's quite a lot of responsibility and time management.

To all of you parents out there, you deserve all the recognition in the world, and might also find this amusing (I promise that it is not from the onion, nor is it an "ate my balls" page...

Make sure you check pages 1 and 2
Thanks. That's really cool of you to say. 🙂 That site is hilarious, too.

I wonder if we can get this thread moved to non-trad to liven the place up a bit?

Evo, you listening? 😛
 
I had my kid 3 days after finishing my surgery rotation. We had a ms who had her fifth kid during second year.

Its definately do-able.
 
roja said:
I had my kid 3 days after finishing my surgery rotation. We had a ms who had her fifth kid during second year.

Its definately do-able.

5 kids? Holy $h!t. I didn't know there were still women in this country that tough period.

I have two godchildren and that's enough (for now).
 
I have a classmate with 5 kiddos, another with 4, and one who had #2 during MS1 and will have #3 in the early months of MS4. There are ways to work it out.
 
DrMom said:
I'll get it over there, labrat

off to non-trad 🙂
Thanks, Dr. Mom. 🙂

One of my interviewers asked me about how I would manage my time in med school. I went through a typical school day for me. He was exhausted by the end of my story. Then I said, "I think I've adapted to only need five hours of sleep a night. That seems to help" But I have thought about time management issues, and I'm often multitasking. My kids are generally old enough to be somewhat independent, and after they go to bed, it's time for mommy to study, or I schedule my classes to give me "study breaks" during my school day.
 
it's encouraging to hear that other intelligent people are breeding. but, we've got some catching up to do. the stupid people are still winning.

i encourage all med students to have as many children as possible.


but seriously: I have made time during med school to be an assistant coach on my oldest's football team as well as on my youngest's baseball team.

the kids keep you grounded and remind you that there's more to being a med student than medicine.
 
clkimmey said:
it's encouraging to hear that other intelligent people are breeding. but, we've got some catching up to do. the stupid people are still winning.

i encourage all med students to have as many children as possible.


but seriously: I have made time during med school to be an assistant coach on my oldest's football team as well as on my youngest's baseball team.

the kids keep you grounded and remind you that there's more to being a med student than medicine.

Right on. I am the basketball coach for my 7-yr-old's basketball team at the YMCA. I love yelling at as many kids at one time as possible...kidding, but it definitely keeps me grounded and it is a lot of fun.
 
How is the financial aid money for providing for a family. My daughter will be one when school starts and my wife stays at home. We will likely have more children during school.

Is it best to go with a NHSC or HPSP scholarship to relieve some stress or can you make it work with loans? Is there a cushion available if you get into trouble and need more cash?
 
DCM said:
How is the financial aid money for providing for a family. My daughter will be one when school starts and my wife stays at home. We will likely have more children during school.

Is it best to go with a NHSC or HPSP scholarship to relieve some stress or can you make it work with loans? Is there a cushion available if you get into trouble and need more cash?

Hi there,
The federal financial aid generally does not do much in terms of family coverage. You can apply for private loans for coverage of items above the federal loan limits but check the payback requirements very carefully. Some of the private loans require you to start paying back during residency where money is even tighter than during medical school.

Some medical schools have begun to include things such as insurance benefits for dependents in their student health coverage. Investigate this because fees for health insurance can be very expensive when you are on a tight budget.

Public health scholarships are great but they require you to go into primary care. If you find that you really want to go into a specialty, you have to fulfill your primary care obligations before you can go into residency for your specialty. Also, public health scholarships generally cover tuition with a small living allowance so be very sure of how much you need for family expenses and that you want to go into primary care before you sign on the dotted line. There is a very famous case of an anesthesiologist who receive four years of public health money and then went into anesthesiology. She now owes more than one million (loans + interest) since she hasn't been paying anything during the appeals of her case. She tried to declare financial hardship but making an anesthesiologist's salary does not qualify as a hardship even if you owe such a large amount. Bottom line: investigate any loans or scholarships before you sign up for anything.

Also, do some budgeting and saving for the years that you will not be working or working at a low salary. Pay off any high interest credit cards as soon as possible and put them in a bank vault so you won't be tempted to use them when money gets tight.

Do remember that some practice groups will pay off the loans of new members joining the practice if you practice for so many years with that particular group. This is especially true of many large family practice group practices in order to attract new partners to joing the group. This might also alleviate some of your debt.

Good luck and do lots of reseach into scholarships, tuition remission and debt management for medical students. It really pays off during residecy when you don't have a huge debt accruing interest.

njbmd 🙂
 
Thanks for the great info!
 
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