Yikes this thread is a mess! With that being said, because we don’t know your stats, we cannot fully help you. I’ll try to give you an example of minimum stats that dental schools may like for a late applicant
150+ shadowing hours
250+ volunteering
20+ AA
Strong LORs
3.6+ science gpa ( or masters/postbac if not)
Some dental schools take stats lower than these for late applicants, while others wouldn’t consider these and expect higher.
I would encourage you to take a deep breath and apply early next cycle. I understand the pressure that parents may be putting on you (trust me), but at the end of the day It’s important for your own mental health to do what’s best for you even if it means waiting out a year. I wish you the best and success in the future!