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Great advice, I agree completely. Need to check yourself and see where you are on the spectrum of working as a form of self-worth/joy. My wife could not wait to get back into the OR after 2 months of maternity leave (while still being an incredible mother). Other female docs I know love working part-time and have very fulfilling lives.First child is a whirl wind and will hit you harder than any further ensuing children. Anticipate a whole other level of suck.
Medical school and residency prepares you well for pushing full throttle.
However, with a child, you never get the targeted day on the calendar to say "that's my rest day" "that's when I'll attempt to sleep binge"
Doesn't happen.
You will be exhausted.
Now, women bring their own spectrum of motherliness. Some women live and breath the role and the whole domestic duties that come with it. Others loathe it and can't wait to get out of the house and punt their kids to some one else.
Think about where you are on this spectrum. Granted things might change after delivery, but what I'm getting at, is if you happen to already know that you are more of a working person, you might want to simply just open the practice now, and be okay with having it limp along for next few months and after. Use this slow limping time to develop your policies, and hone your work flow. Let all the patients know maternity leave is coming in several months. Set your schedule up to not take on new patients while on 'Leave' but also work a few hours each day, like 2-3 at most. It could be a good distraction to get you out of your screaming pooping peeing thirsty hungry infant life, even if for a few hours.