njbmd said:
Hi there,
Make your life as simple as possible. Live close to the medical school and make sure you have a safe and legal place to park. It is really awful to find your car gone or broken into during exam week. Use public transportation whenever possible.
Don't whine or complain. If you have a problem with class, administration, work out several possible solutions and present them with an explanation of your problem.
You cannot learn it all so don't make yourself crazy trying to learn everything. Everyone has some class that drives them nuts so rely on your upperclass advisors to help you navigate through things that might be vexing. Other than that, use the study skills that got you into medical school and adjust up or drop back as you see the need. It's an adjustment for everyone so be patient with yourself.
Find a safe and legal way to let off steam. Swim, brisk walk, run, shoot hoops, music etc. Do something at least three times a week that does not involve medicine and stick with it. Your body and mind will thank you.
Professional school is very, very different from undergraduate school. You have more in common with your fellow classmates than differences. Hang together and become good colleagues for each other. In the long run, it will save you tons of headaches if you are not trying to "out gun" your classmates or save your own soul.
Your needs in order of greatest importance: safe place to study, safe place to sleep and keep up with personal grooming and saft place to keep your computer, books and things. You don't need: every review book that you read about, ten different texts for each subject or the latest electronic gadget.
You would not have gotten into medical school if you could not get the job done. Run your own race and challenge yourself to do better and better. Ignore your boastful classmates (chalk it up to immaturity, stress etc) and keep looking forward toward your goals. If an action doesn't help you professionally, then don't do it. Be the consumate professional and treat everyone (the bore, the bully, the gunner, the fraidy cat) with respect.
If you are in a relationship with SO, spouse, child, parents etc, take some time to nurture that relationship. Plan some time in your schedule for those folks who love you and have been there for you. This gives you and them something to look forward to.
Meet and exceed every deadline. Keep copies of all school related correspondence in a safe and accessable place. Keep good financial records and keep spending as low as possible. Don't run up huge credit card debt. Have contingency plans for sick children etc.
Keep up with your classwork. If you find yourself a day behind, catch up on the weekend but keep up with your coursework. Help your fellow students keep up. Help anyone who needs your help; one day they can repay your kindness.
Have fun! You will build some special friendships in medical school that you will have for the rest of your life.
njbmd 🙂
That's the best advice I think I've ever seen on sdn, or anywhere for that matter.
I just want to add...
Medical school is a b!tch. Really, you think you know... but you have no idea...
😉 And one of the hardest parts is that no one from your life before medical school will ever truly understand. Your parents, friends, sign. other(s), etc. just might think, well, this is like undergrad., but harder [like on steroids]. But, it's not.
As sad as that is, you have 150ish people experiencing it with you, and another 450 who came just before you--cherish and take advantage of that.
Medical school is an alternate universe. Nothing you have done, will do over the summer, etc. will prepare you for your new state of being. It's really like that. I think being a medical student is a lifestyle. I'm not saying that to intimidate you-or make you think that you'll have no life outside of school, I really just want you to be aware that it's
not just that the classes may be a wee more difficult than your previous ones, or the volume of material may seem insurmountable. Medical school is not
just an academic metamorphosis.
That's not to say that you won't or I don't have a fabulous life outside of school. I spend lots of time with my friends from school, and elsewhere. I do lots of stuff I enjoy. I go out [too much!] a lot. But first year really has changed me... made me stronger, wiser, blah blah blah... but it's also broken me in like a new mare.
😉
If you're the overzealous type, like I was, you might enjoy orientation and maybe the first week. Then your rose-colored glasses crack a lil... and you realize that you're actually in anatomy lab with "henrietta" your cadaver--finally where you'd been aiming for so long. I, personally, freaked out at the thought of that. And then got smacked in the face with the first exam block. Which... I supposedly did well on, but of course to all us overachievers, it was sheer disappointment on a stick. Be prepared for that.
I think the most-needed attribute for med. school is survival instinct. You just need to do whatever it is (provided it's safe and legal) to help you get by, and get by as well as you can. Whatever works for you. That may mean staying at home in a small corner studying all hours of the night, or staying at school for 3 hours every day after class to keep up, or taking a few hours over the weekend to review what you did in all your classes last week. It's different for everyone, and don't let anyone tell you how to study, how to cope--find what works for you [which may take an exam or two] and stick with it. Be flexible, what worked for you in undergrad/grad school may not work in med. school. Or it just might.
Btw.. if you're a crammer like me...
undergrad. cramming=morning of to two days before test
medical school cramming=2 weeks before to no slack off time permitted
My favorite thing to do now after exams is to listen to what ppl. are saying outside the room as soon as they're done. AND LAUGH and roll my eyes. "OMG... it was sooooo easy, pls. I didn't even need to study, or I didn't study at all for Biochem." Don't listen to any of that crap. They're liars, or delusional. Or for real [and have zero consideration or respect for ppl. for whom the info. did not come as easily to] and I kinda hate them b/c of their lack of social grace. Remember how we were all stellar students back in the day?? Well this is med school... and they have to find some way to spread us along the bell curve--so your best friend next to you, may not be doing as well~so shut ya mouth. (I learned this lesson in undergrad when my gf would get 60's on exams I got 98's on... a little compassion won't kill you, I promise)
Also, don't be a whiny baby. This is MEDICAL not MIDDLE school. If the test was difficult, suck it up. The only reason to complain to a professor or admin. is wait... never. Respectfully bring up any issues or contradictions with exams in an appropriate manner. If it was hard simply b/c you didn't study hard enough, b!tch to your friends not the faculty.
As per Dickens, "It was the best of the times, it was the worst of times." Enjoy it people and soak up the experience, b/c nothing in your life will ever compare to it, and the friendships you make there [at 2am the night before an exam you don't feel prepared for] will last forever.
Con mucho amor, Dee
😛