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I know there was a previous thread about this topic, but it's such an individual issue I figured no one would mind a new thread.
I was accepted to my program to work under one of the best researchers and professors in the department. And today he meets with me to tell me that last minute he applied for a new position at a different university and plans to accept the resulting offer. I haven't even begun the program yet.
He seems very willing to support me and kept saying he wants to do whatever he can to help me be successful but I'm just at a loss. Total shock and readjustment. Unfortunately, he still has yet to find out all the detail or even make an official announcement to the department, so everything is still up in the air and out of my control until I have more information.
Based on what I do know so far, it seems the best option for me would be to try to hook up with a new mentor in the department since my acceptance and funding remains stable and guaranteed for the duration of my time with the program. I think I may be able to join the lab of a recently hired professor as she doesn't have many students yet. I just pray that the fit will be there and I won't be miserable in this program now that my original mentor is leaving.
Mostly I'm still grieving my original plans and bemoaning the unfairness of the situation. As you all know, you work so damn hard to get to this one place and it's just unfathomable to me that after everything something so devastating can happen. Life is ridiculous.
Anyway, any input, recommendations, or condolence is most welcome. I'll be crying intermittently and trying to distract myself for the rest of the day.
I was accepted to my program to work under one of the best researchers and professors in the department. And today he meets with me to tell me that last minute he applied for a new position at a different university and plans to accept the resulting offer. I haven't even begun the program yet.
He seems very willing to support me and kept saying he wants to do whatever he can to help me be successful but I'm just at a loss. Total shock and readjustment. Unfortunately, he still has yet to find out all the detail or even make an official announcement to the department, so everything is still up in the air and out of my control until I have more information.
Based on what I do know so far, it seems the best option for me would be to try to hook up with a new mentor in the department since my acceptance and funding remains stable and guaranteed for the duration of my time with the program. I think I may be able to join the lab of a recently hired professor as she doesn't have many students yet. I just pray that the fit will be there and I won't be miserable in this program now that my original mentor is leaving.
Mostly I'm still grieving my original plans and bemoaning the unfairness of the situation. As you all know, you work so damn hard to get to this one place and it's just unfathomable to me that after everything something so devastating can happen. Life is ridiculous.
Anyway, any input, recommendations, or condolence is most welcome. I'll be crying intermittently and trying to distract myself for the rest of the day.
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