What's a ROL?
I'm pretty much done with interviews. I didn't get as many as I wanted, and I'll have 6-7 on my rank list.
For me, all the programs are all good in their own way. It's hard to decide, but since location plays a large role for me due to my girlfriend, that clears up the 1st and 2nd spot up for me.
After that, it gets hard- do I go to the place that I love but is far away from my girlfriend? Is 8hrs the same as 12hrs away? Which place has the lower cost of living so I can save up money to go visit her? Is that worth it?
ROL = Rank Order List
That's funny, I'm ranking programs higher the farther away from my girlfriend they are. I kid, I kid. Actually, I don't, unfortunately, which kinda sucks, but oh well.
As far as location issues, anything over about 5 hours driving = the suck. If I were working the day before (or the day) I left, and working the day after I came back, I would not want to drive it.
For cost of living:
http://www.bestplaces.net/col/
No easy answers when it comes to this kind of stuff. I don't mean to be a gloomy gladys, but on the interview trail, I met a lot of residents who chose where they ended up because of (unmarried) couples matching or staying near their boyfriend/girlfriend or where their boyfriend/girlfriend could get a job. To a person, every one of them was no longer with the person that they made their decision based on.
I know that's a pretty pessimistic view to take, but there you go. The ranking process is sucky and you make tradeoffs no matter where you choose to go unless you're very lucky. Personally I'd love to have a program that supported research, had a very strong child component, had (at the risk of Doc Samson screaming at me) light call, strong in mind-body interventions, strong psychotherapy training in IPT, CBT, and time-limited psychodynamic therapy, strong bioanthropology and exercise science programs at the associated university, I felt like I fit in, near my girlfriend, and was located in semi-rural texas but had an atmosphere like southern England. Guess what? Not gonna happen.