It is virtually unavoidable for most of us. Most deductions are disallowed other than mortgage interest or charitable deductions.
Option 1. Pay it. Choose to live in a low state income tax and property tax area. Tax manage investments. Aggressively harvest losses. Pay attention to which assets are in which account.
You can play with timing of state income tax last quarterly payment if you are on the threshold of the AMT, but it is just pissing in the wind.
Option 2. Cheat on your taxes.
I prefer option 1.