Mike MacKinnon said:
The last comment someone made to me that really helped push me into starting pre reqs was this "You can be 40 and a nurse or 40 and a doctor, but you'll be 40 no matter what". It hit home.
That's exactly what I told my mom, too.
👍 I am turning 30 this week, and I'll be 31 next year when I hopefully begin medical school. I have an MS in chemistry, and I'm finishing my PhD, also in chemistry. I did apply to medical school as an undergrad, but I went about it all wrong. I didn't apply to enough schools (only 3), I didn't do a post-bac (I went to a liberal arts college with no grades), and worst of all, I didn't impress upon the medical schools where I applied how badly I really wanted to go to medical school. In spite of all that, I managed to get two interviews but ended up waitlisted at both schools. I went on to grad school and kind of put med school out of my mind for a while, but I never really stopped thinking about going.
OP, my recommendation to you, on top of what everyone else has already suggested, is that you contact your state school if you have one and ask for a meeting with the admissions director. Bring copies of all your transcripts and your MCAT scores if you have them. Also, make a list of your current and past activities, both medical and non-medical. Ask the admissions director whether you are competitive based on your current stats and ECs. If not, find out what you have to do to make yourself more competitive, and do it.
I actually met with the admissions directors at three schools, and not only did each one give me suggestions to improve my app, but now I also have a contact at each school, and they know who I am when I call or email their offices. I found that all three schools were very open to taking qualified non-traditional applicants, and they all waived their GPA requirement for me (since I don't have an undergrad GPA.) But the thing is, you do have to meet the same qualifications that the younger students do, such as scoring the minimum MCAT they ask for (they preferred a 30, but the minimum is 24), having a competitive graduate or post-bac GPA (they asked for 3.5+, but the minimum is 3.0), and participating in shadowing and hospital volunteering kinds of experiences.
If medicine is your dream, I hope that you decide to go for it, and I wish you the best of luck. Drop in sometimes and post how you're doing with your pre-reqs.