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Hi!
I am in a very delicate position. I am starting on a manusript that is based on my thesis research. At the time of the thesis, I was paired up with a senior student, but things did not work out. She was giving me the run around saying that she'll help me, but never did. From there I brought up the situation to my mentor and my relationship with this student suffered thereafter. Things are changing lately and she seems willing to compromise and work things out. I offered that we work together on the manuscript and she accepted. However, I still don't trust her and based on some recent incident we had (where she put her name 1st on a project I came up with), I worry she intends to go as a first author on my thesis research. She is somewhat more advanced in terms of stats skills than I am, but there isn't anything that she knows that I can't learn on my own and through consulting with other people. It would be nice to work with someone as working alone takes lots of time, but I wouldn't want to get involved if she wants to take over.
How can I bring this up in a nice, polite way and get an understanding of this? Do I bring it up to the student? Mentor? Both? I hope someone can help! Thank you.
I am in a very delicate position. I am starting on a manusript that is based on my thesis research. At the time of the thesis, I was paired up with a senior student, but things did not work out. She was giving me the run around saying that she'll help me, but never did. From there I brought up the situation to my mentor and my relationship with this student suffered thereafter. Things are changing lately and she seems willing to compromise and work things out. I offered that we work together on the manuscript and she accepted. However, I still don't trust her and based on some recent incident we had (where she put her name 1st on a project I came up with), I worry she intends to go as a first author on my thesis research. She is somewhat more advanced in terms of stats skills than I am, but there isn't anything that she knows that I can't learn on my own and through consulting with other people. It would be nice to work with someone as working alone takes lots of time, but I wouldn't want to get involved if she wants to take over.
How can I bring this up in a nice, polite way and get an understanding of this? Do I bring it up to the student? Mentor? Both? I hope someone can help! Thank you.