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Do any of medical students/Doctors ever use the "I'm a Doctor 😎" phrase as a pick-up line?
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... only the ones who don't get laid very often.

Yesterday a good friend of mine was approached downtown while minding her business and given the old, "Don't I know you from the hospital? I'm doctor Steve..." line. lame. Might as well go to the club in your white coat.
 
You are pretty lame if you find a way to squeeze it in at every angle. Now, if you are already in with the chick and then led it slip out that you're a doctor, it MIGHT solidify the deal.

My mom won't shut the hell up and all of her friends are trying to hook me up with their daughter / granddaughter. The few I've met seem to know about my goals...weird eh? 😉
 
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i doubt it matters. i mean, would you be into a girl just because she is going to be a doctor?
 
Haha i would def use that ..
 
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If you don't have game to begin with, it won't make a difference.
 
The women who are attracted to these kinds of things are the kind of women a doctor wouldn't want anyway.
 
Screw that. They have to approach me and show interest if they want any type of relationship. I don't make myself vulnerable by exposing my feelings and going after a girl when there's a chance I may get my feelings hurt because of a rejection. And I don't have a problem anyway because even if they do let me down for whatever reason, hey, they approached me first...i still hang onto my pride somewhat. 👍:laugh:
 
The funny thing is female MDs don't reap the same social benefits as male MDs. They actually scare away guys who feel inferior due to their career choice in comparison.

Great to have dat dere Y chromosome, eh. 😎
 
DoctorRx1986 said:
Screw that. They have to approach me and show interest if they want any type of relationship. I don't make myself vulnerable by exposing my feelings and going after a girl when there's a chance I may get my feelings hurt because of a rejection. And I don't have a problem anyway because even if they do let me down for whatever reason, hey, they approached me first...i still hang onto my pride somewhat. 👍:laugh:
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you must use your 👍 hand alot. Also that makes you sound so weak and i dont know many chicks that dig weakness.
 
not sure what it means, but it definitely does not equate to money and usually equates to late start in life and can't afford kids or family till I'm 30-35😀....
 
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MilkmanAl said:
No, but it certainly wouldn't hurt. All that glam is gonna be gone in 30 years anyway, so you might as well be with someone you can talk to. 😉
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that's true. I guess what I meant was I doubt being a doctor is an instant turn-on. Sure, if you are good-looking and have all that going for you, the fact that you are called "dr." will be an added bonus, but I can't see how it's going to magically make you attractive.
 
DoctorRx1986 said:
Screw that. They have to approach me and show interest if they want any type of relationship. I don't make myself vulnerable by exposing my feelings and going after a girl when there's a chance I may get my feelings hurt because of a rejection. And I don't have a problem anyway because even if they do let me down for whatever reason, hey, they approached me first...i still hang onto my pride somewhat. 👍:laugh:
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Dude, weak.

Most chicks that will approach you just because you're a "whatever" aren't worth your time.

Here is the type of chick you'll meet at a club with that attitude.

[YOUTUBE]http://youtube.com/watch?v=nFSy2Gl8YnM[/YOUTUBE]
 
kedrin said:
you must use your 👍 hand alot. Also that makes you sound so weak and i dont know many chicks that dig weakness.
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It may make me sound weak, but then again, I sure as hell don't want to end up being a miserably depressed man all because of women. I'm 21 and my parents divorced 3 years ago when I was 18. I've known countless people who are in relationships, but are miserable anyway. Those who appear to be happy are few and might be so for superficial reasons that in the long term don't matter much...sex, physical appearance, career status, money, family expectations, or even religion. And you misunderstood my post anyway...if you read it clearly, women approach me frequently, but i just turn them down for fear and insecurity of being miserable at my age. I don't even trust my very own parents sometimes...much less will i trust some woman i am legally bound to by a worthless paper that i can rip apart and who can destroy my life by taking everything away from me and even accusing me of a crime i have not committed. Dr. or no Dr. makes no difference if you have baggage or negative feelings associated with relationships.
 
DoctorRx1986 said:
It may make me sound weak, but then again, I sure as hell don't want to end up being a miserably depressed man all because of women.
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Whether or not you carry baggage from relationships is entirely up to you. How you approach the relationship, how honest you are, how confident you are, etc. Getting into a relationship doesn't have to stunt your growth, in fact it should do just the opposite. I'm not married or in any kind of serious relationship, but all the past girlfriends I've had have been really positive and I can't imagine what my life would be like without them. It is all up to you. I think that being afraid of the unknown is a pretty dangerous attitude.
 
coldweatherblue said:
Whether or not you carry baggage from relationships is entirely up to you. How you approach the relationship, how honest you are, how confident you are, etc. Getting into a relationship doesn't have to stunt your growth, in fact it should do just the opposite. I'm not married or in any kind of serious relationship, but all the past girlfriends I've had have been really positive and I can't imagine what my life would be like without them. It is all up to you. I think that being afraid of the unknown is a pretty dangerous attitude.
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Well, I thank you for at least expressing your opinion in a decent manner without using derogatory or vulgar language.
 
coldweatherblue said:
... only the ones who don't get laid very often.

Yesterday a good friend of mine was approached downtown while minding her business and given the old, "Don't I know you from the hospital? I'm doctor Steve..." line. lame. Might as well go to the club in your white coat.
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i know right and whoever that woman you're trying to get, she may be just in to you because ya got money.
 
It certainly helps since it shows you're going somewhere in life! The girl's parents love it. And the saving lives thing - if that isn't impressive, then what is?

I'd much rather they be impressed with my career than my looks. Being a doctor is actually, like, MEANINGFUL.

And any girl with brains should know that most doctors are far from rich.
 
ahaydt said:
I think I've stumbled onto Adam and Dr. Drew's "Loveline."
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yea i know wtf?

i haven't read a thread on sdn that is relevant to medicine in like 3-4 months. (an embellishment of course, but still...they are few and far between)
 
so i've always heard about this guy at my undergrad who is a 6th year "premed" and he tells girls that he's going to be a doctor when he hits on them

i didn't know if it was true until one day i was out in hollywood clubbing and guess who hits on my friend? yup you got it! our future doctor! hahahaha :laugh:

of course it didn't work on her, but i've heard that it's worked on plenty of other girls...
 
Being tall gets the attention for me before anything. I'm 6'5"...and when I go out to bars I wear a red shirt a lot, so I def. stand out. 😛 Oh, and it could be my awesome personality
 
PinkMonkey said:
Do any of medical students/Doctors ever use the "I'm a Doctor 😎" phrase as a pick-up line?
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Only if you are good looking. Females don't care if you are a doctor and are ugly. They want looks over anything else. After looks comes money, and a big stick. Also, a doctor who is nice and ugly will have a really hard time getting a good looking lady.
 
wisconsindoctor said:
Only if you are good looking. Females don't care if you are a doctor and are ugly. They want looks over anything else. After looks comes money, and a big stick. Also, a doctor who is nice and ugly will have a really hard time getting a good looking lady.
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Right on. You must also own exactly 3 yachts, a mansion on a cliff overlooking the ocean or another large body of water, and have a young french girl who questionably works as a maid for you.
 
DoctorRx1986 said:
It may make me sound weak, but then again, I sure as hell don't want to end up being a miserably depressed man all because of women. I'm 21 and my parents divorced 3 years ago when I was 18. I've known countless people who are in relationships, but are miserable anyway. Those who appear to be happy are few and might be so for superficial reasons that in the long term don't matter much...sex, physical appearance, career status, money, family expectations, or even religion. And you misunderstood my post anyway...if you read it clearly, women approach me frequently, but i just turn them down for fear and insecurity of being miserable at my age. I don't even trust my very own parents sometimes...much less will i trust some woman i am legally bound to by a worthless paper that i can rip apart and who can destroy my life by taking everything away from me and even accusing me of a crime i have not committed. Dr. or no Dr. makes no difference if you have baggage or negative feelings associated with relationships.
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Dude...if you bring baggage with you into a new relationship...you're setting yourself up for failure. If you're really looking to start up something with a new girl who could potentially be a good gf, you always start clean slate. Give the new girl a fair shot. No one wants to date someone who keeps moping about previous relationships...thats a good way of making the new girl run for the hills...learn from your mistakes and move on.
 
If you only need to get laid, yea, sure, use that line.
If you're looking for a life partner, you'd better set the expectation low at first. I can't imagine being married to a ho who just wants to get alimony.
 
You have to go SUBTLE on this. Like put in your Facebook interests, "Medicine". Ladies will get the hint 👍
 
wisconsindoctor said:
Only if you are good looking. Females don't care if you are a doctor and are ugly. They want looks over anything else. After looks comes money, and a big stick. Also, a doctor who is nice and ugly will have a really hard time getting a good looking lady.
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#1 confidence
#2 looks
#3 money
 
I met a pre-med girl recently.

She's not only really pretty, but she's smart and sophisticated. It's great.

She's not like, "LOL SO I WAS LIEK SO DRUNK LATS WEKEND N I SCREWT 4 GUYS!"

We have actual discussions instead of just small talk. She's so much fun.
 
It doesn't matter what you do if you're ugly, as stated earlier.

Seriously.
 
VoiceofReason said:
It doesn't matter what you do if you're ugly, as stated earlier.

Seriously.
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wait...This is me
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Will I ever get any women?
 
ufgrad00 said:
Dude, weak.

Most chicks that will approach you just because you're a "whatever" aren't worth your time.

Here is the type of chick you'll meet at a club with that attitude.

[youtube]nFSy2Gl8YnM[/youtube]
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HAHAHAH Why haven't I seen this before...might be the most accurate depiction ever :laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:
 
SoFlaKnight said:
HAHAHAH Why haven't I seen this before...might be the most accurate depiction ever :laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:
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No joke. I'm appalled... I know that girl... Not the one in the video, but just "that girl." Yuck.
 
a buddy of mine is a rocket scientist. he doesn't bring it up until girls ask what he does. then he says "aerospace engineer," which usually draws blank stares. i figure when i'm a neurological surgeon, we'll have the ultimate tag team.

of course, i'll be like 65 by then...
 
nu2004 said:
a buddy of mine is a rocket scientist. he doesn't bring it up until girls ask what he does. then he says "aerospace engineer," which usually draws blank stares. i figure when i'm a neurological surgeon, we'll have the ultimate tag team.

of course, i'll be like 65 by then...
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I have a friend (a guy I dated once) who's degree was in aerospace engineering, but when he graduated he decided to teach ballroom dancing instead. It's so funny, cause you think he's this dancer-guy, and then someone tells you that he's a rocket scientist. You just aren't expecting it. 🙂
 
PinkMonkey said:
Do any of medical students/Doctors ever use the "I'm a Doctor 😎" phrase as a pick-up line?
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Pick-up lines are lame and I never come outright and say anything school-related unless asked. It's funny because when I talk to girls, it's usually my friends who are the ones to interrupt our conversation and say "he's going to be a doctor". While it's awfully nice of them to do so, I don't think I need the help.
 
DoctorDreamer said:
I have a friend (a guy I dated once) who's degree was in aerospace engineering, but when he graduated he decided to teach ballroom dancing instead. It's so funny, cause you think he's this dancer-guy, and then someone tells you that he's a rocket scientist. You just aren't expecting it. 🙂
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It obviously didn't impress YOU too much, did it? :laugh:
 
EpiPEN said:
:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:
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Oh, I so see this all the time! It makes me smile... well, maybe smirk, inside. (Then again, I do it to, but only because medicine is a genuine interest... Guys don't seem to think ambition is attractive on women.)
 
DoctorDreamer said:
Oh, I so see this all the time! It makes me smile... well, maybe smirk, inside. (Then again, I do it to, but only because medicine is a genuine interest... Guys don't seem to think ambition is attractive on women.)
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that's true, but if you put something like "making sandwiches" in your interests, that will really get a guy going. 😉
 
brianmartin said:
You have to go SUBTLE on this. Like put in your Facebook interests, "Medicine". Ladies will get the hint 👍
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hmm...that could also mean you are one of those people who has been rejected and aren't going to become a doctor at all, or it could mean you're obsessed with watching discovery health and sell car insurance for a living.
I think the education listing "X University School of Medicine, class of 20YZ" is more effective for these purposes :laugh:

I never bring it up myself. I always wait until asked. And even then I mention it and don't give details. That gives them a chance to get into me before they start making drastic conclusions or other associations. I certainly don't brag about it, because that's, well, toolish. And attracts the WRONG girls.
 
JA Prufrock said:
that's true, but if you put something like "making sandwiches" in your interests, that will really get a guy going. 😉
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Don't forget doing laundry, cooking dinner, leaving people alone when they need to be, and able to shop with only female friends. These are all awsome hobbies to have! :laugh:

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Making sandwiches is good.
but making good sandwiches, now THAT's ambition!
 
DoctorDreamer said:
LOL! Actually, he's just not right for me, but he is impressive as... well, something impressive. Truly fantastic guy.
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Alas...it sounds like the "nice guy" fell into the bottomless "friend trap." Once a guy is in there, he NEVER gets out! :laugh:
 
Hurricane95 said:
Alas...it sounds like the "nice guy" fell into the bottomless "friend trap." Once a guy is in there, he NEVER gets out! :laugh:
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LOL! There's truth to that comment, but it's not fool-proof.
 
the OP hasn't been to many second looks
 
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