Bombed my Fist Semester at University - help, please

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I could really use some advice. It was not until my sophomore year that I final decided I wanted become an MD. This was mostly due to a lack of confidence on my part through my early years of schooling. I was homeschooled my entire life and always told I would be starting college behind those who had attended traditional schooling. I took my SAT’s and scored high enough to receive the one scholarship I applied for. Here, I would begin my college career at the community college. My parents were not ready for me to leave home and thought it a better transitional process than entering strait into a major university. I received my AA degree, while holding a 3.93 GPA. During this time I was also able to receive two other scholarships and an honor donned on the volunteer work I was fortunate to be involved in through the college. I have over 300 hours of volunteering logged. Time recorded including: tutoring special education elementary students, acting as teacher’s aide at a hearing impaired preschool, working in transportation at a local hospital, heading a food drive in my community, work on English communications with two teens in Sadie Arabia over Skype, ect.

Now it is my junior year, though not so according to most medical school guidelines. In attending the community college, I did so with my twin brother who, at the time, was not as committed to his studies as I. To save on money, my parents had us take all the same classes; as such, I find myself still needing many of my major courses. I have taken biology 1 &2, chemistry 1 &2, and mathematics through calculous with analytical geometry. I am still needing all of my research hours, and still needing time shadowing.

This last semester was my first at university and was admittedly a great struggle for me. I was very sheltered growing up and this transition would mean living on my own and facing the world by myself for the first time. Only a few family members and my best friend knows this, but I was molested within the first few week of classes. Due perhaps to this stress, else I would have contracted regardless, I became very sick. For three weeks I battled of an illness which, to this day, I can’t for sure give name. Besides this challenges the transition from my community college was proving greater than expected. My last class there attended but 8 students. Juxtaposed, two of my four classes at university held 450 students. All of these factors combined, most perhaps the molestation, resulted in a devastating semester. I received a B in Calculus, a B in Sociology, a C in Statistics, and a D in Chemistry 2.

It is crushing to think that one semester could so ruin a GPA I fought so hard to maintain. I am left feeling unsure of where my chances for medical school stand, how best to proceed. On my side, I have strong letters of recommendation available through my biology 2 professor, who told me that my research project was one of the best he has ever received, and from my humanities teach, who gave me a star Christmas ornament on the last day of class saying I had earned more points in her class than any student she has ever taught and that I would always be a star in her eyes.

Factors not in my favor include my less than perfect GPA, lack of shadowing, and lack of research. Besides this, in order that the transition might go smoother, at the start of the semester I resigned from my job of 2-years. I feel as though this might have been acceptable for one semester, however any further time spent jobless would be mistake. Also due to my upbringing and homeschooling, I am not a part of many extracurricular. I took ballet lessons and was part of both the demonstrator and teacher trainee programs and my studio; though, this was during my high school years. I plan to join AMSA at the start of the next semester. I love English, I might pick up a minor in creative writing. When I was 11, I self-published a children’s book and held a number of workshops on the publishing processes. Though again, I am not sure if this will be taken into consideration as it was not during my college years.

Thank you for any who took the time to read all of that. Any advice you could give would be most welcome. Best of luck to you all.

Most Sincerely,

A Friend
 
Be nice; she went through a lot.

OP, you're doing the best that you can with the hand you were unfortunately dealt. Quitting your job was smart. I'm really sorry to hear you've had such a rough time. There are some horrible people in the world. Two things that might make you feel better to know are: 1) schools look positively at an upward trade trend and it's not uncommon for people to have a rough adjustment semester or two, and 2) if you are okay with being a DO doctor, they have a grade replacement/forgiveness policy when calculating GPA.

AMSA is a waste of time. If you enjoyed your past experiences, you could look for other volunteer positions at clinics, hospitals, hospice, nursing homes, etc. I know you already have a lot, but longitudinal activities are good. Better yet, try to get involved in research if you don't have any. It's not too hard to get shadowing, particularly if you have connections through parents' friends or others, and you will need at least a little. If you can find some more ECs related to publishing and/or dance, that would be a boost as well, to make you more well-rounded.

Good luck. 🙂
 
tl;dr version: OP took 2 years at a CC and made a 3.93. She went to university and didn't do too well. She has a science LOR and a humanities LOR, but had to leave her job to help him focus on studies. OP has little shadowing and little research under her belt as a junior in college.
  1. I'm gonna have to be mean here, because if not me, then other people will. Your story is different than the usual "I was a freshman (first year) student that jumped into the deep end and struggled to stay afloat." You have a degree with a 3.93 cGPA. Yes, a transition is always tough when going from high school/CC to a 4-year university. However, you had the tools to, at the very least, adapt to the rigors of college with taking two years of CC classes and making (what I assume) is only 2-3 A-'s. Adcoms will take into consideration your struggle, but let me tell you that they have seen many people struggle with worse and still pull through. A few things come to mind when I read your post: you make excuses for yourself. Now, this DOES NOT INCLUDE the molestation, HOWEVER, not getting help WILL BE A NEGATIVE. This is something you're gonna need help with overcoming because if you don't get help, then it only gets worse (trust me, I have had many issues with depression.) If you keep telling yourself that never being exposed is a good reason that you didn't do well, then you're only lying to yourself. 90% of the first-year students haven't experienced the real world either, yet they can go off joining fraternities, shadow, do research, volunteer, and maintain a 3.5+ GPA.
  2. Now, here's some good news: it is not too late. If you can create an upward trend, then this is favorable in the eyes of adcoms. Get help with your trauma and focus on your GPA this coming semester. You can't think of this as a long-term goal right now when in GPA-repair mode: it will overwhelm you. You gotta take this one semester at a time. As someone who had to have an upward trend to even be considered to get into medical school, I can tell you that it's still possible to get in. People fall down and get back up. Some people stay down longer than others, but they can still get up. If you give up though, then you will stay down. Once your GPA is on an upward trend, then you should worry about shadowing, volunteering, and working again.
  3. AMSA wasn't a total waste of time for me. I met a few people there that knew doctors that let me shadow for a cumulative 50 hours in a year (being that I had no prior connections to the health care field.) I also got most of my volunteer hours from places that AMSA informed me about in undergrad.
 
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I didn't read the whole thing, but from the title and little bit of the intro, I'm assuming you messed up your first semester as a freshman in college? It is totally expected to bomb that semester. Do not blame it on your home schooling. Heck I was out and beyond throughout my short life before college, took 12 credits, and still bombed my semester. This does not mean I'm not smart/incapable of getting good grades. I was simply adjusting.
My tip is that you shake it off, enjoy this winter break, and be prepared to kill your second semester. Good luck 🙂
 
It's one semester. I had 3 of those semesters, for no good reason, and despite that I've had 10 interviews at top 30 schools. Remember: This is just a blip. You're not defined by your grades. You are as good a student as you were before this semester. I say this because the reason my first bad semester stretched into 3 was because I let it affect my self-esteem and what I thought I was capable of achieving.

It's time to get yourself back in shape and get good grades from here on out, but it won't happen on its own. Examine what you could have done better, put structures in place to make sure you do those things in the future, and go into next semester prepared to rock it.

Finally, you don't need a perfect GPA to get into med school. It sounds like yours will still be pretty great even after this semester because you've done so well up to now. Don't be discouraged! I know it's hard to see the forest when you're in the middle of it but you're going to be absolutely fine.
 
Heres my suggestion: Everytime you said "I am not" "I did not" becasically dot hose activities. You have the asnwer in your writing. Do the volunteering, research, shadowing, EC. and do well in classes going forward
 
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The thing about your potential application that scares me isn't a bad semester; it's the lack of independence and adulthood. I know there were likely cost issues (I'm assuming transportation related?) but choosing your classes because that's what your sibling was taking? Are you in college for yourself or for others in your family? I'd be interested to know what your cultural background is and why you've had the family issues that you've had.
 
As a quick update, my final grades just came in, and I did better then I predicted: A in sociology, B in calculus 2, C in statistics, and C in chemistry 2. Thank you all so much for your kindness.

Not too bad, just come back stronger next semester.

Does your school provide counseling? Try talking to a professional. Don't let this bad moment keep you down.
 
The thing about your potential application that scares me isn't a bad semester; it's the lack of independence and adulthood. I know there were likely cost issues (I'm assuming transportation related?) but choosing your classes because that's what your sibling was taking? Are you in college for yourself or for others in your family? I'd be interested to know what your cultural background is and why you've had the family issues that you've had.

I concur with this statement. I am sorry for the difficulties you have faced but in order to succeed you need to get your support system in order. This means your relationship with your family, which I found very concerning upon reading your post. Being a good student is more than having the time to study. In order to compete physically and mentally you need a functional support system that understands what you want. If none exists then you need to ditch any system that further impedes your progress. I'm not trying to cast judgement on your family but you should be able to clearly articulate what you want and if they are not willing to support you, you should be able to come to terms with that and do it on your own.
 
I received a D in gen chem 1 while being an irresponsible freshman college student. It happens. Two acceptances so far this cycle. There is little on your academic record to nail a coffin shut. However, I would retake and consider a gap year to continue to shadow, volunteer, and demonstrate maturity and growth. That may be needed from what you detail in your story. If this is what you really want to do you will have to prove it.
 
Without going too much into my family life, to say I was sheltered may be a bit of an understatement. My parents have always been ultra-protective. As I child, I did not see friends but once a week at the local dance studio for about an hour. As I got older, I volunteered there a lot. I was not allowed to have people to the house but a couple times a year. As someone guessed, it was financial issues warranted my brother and I taking all the same classes. So too, my parents protectiveness. When I would ask if I could take a different class, I was only allowed so to do if my mother would enroll and take the class with me. This is the level of protectiveness I allude to before. Needless to say, I never took a class with my mother and so my courses were determined primarily by my brother’s ability.

This is why I describe the transition to university as being so hard. I do not mean to make excuses. I realize other students have gone through such transitions as I and not seen the drop in grades as I have. The extremity of my circumstance did however leave me more naïve and henceforth vulnerable to the molestation I endured.

I know my application is not perfect and I would agree I need to attain an ownership of my courses and life. Things have been very different now that I am at university and I am finally free to make my one decisions. I regret that I am coming at my goals from behind, but firmly believe this is what I was meant to do and nothing is going to keep me from someday achieving my goal.

I must take an extra year to graduate do to none major related course taken at the community college. I also plan to take I gap year. I will be volunteering at the hospital starting this semester, hopefully through my gap year. I also plan to continue volunteering at a couple of my favorite summer camps. Next semester, if all goes as planned, my grades should be back to what they were and I hope to gain a position as a peer tutor through the university. This lends itself to the leadership skills I so wish to demonstrate. I have research and shadowing opportunities through relatives.

I cannot change how my education began. Nor the molestation that left me so broken for a time. But I can implement the above strategies and all else to be sure I am ready when the time comes.

To all who expressed their sorrow, thank you. It has been a long road but I final feel as though I am emotionally recovered. In the end, I am stronger for it.

Once again, thanks to all.
 
Without going too much into my family life, to say I was sheltered may be a bit of an understatement. My parents have always been ultra-protective. As I child, I did not see friends but once a week at the local dance studio for about an hour. As I got older, I volunteered there a lot. I was not allowed to have people to the house but a couple times a year. As someone guessed, it was financial issues warranted my brother and I taking all the same classes. So too, my parents protectiveness. When I would ask if I could take a different class, I was only allowed so to do if my mother would enroll and take the class with me. This is the level of protectiveness I allude to before. Needless to say, I never took a class with my mother and so my courses were determined primarily by my brother’s ability.

This is why I describe the transition to university as being so hard. I do not mean to make excuses. I realize other students have gone through such transitions as I and not seen the drop in grades as I have. The extremity of my circumstance did however leave me more naïve and henceforth vulnerable to the molestation I endured.

I know my application is not perfect and I would agree I need to attain an ownership of my courses and life. Things have been very different now that I am at university and I am finally free to make my one decisions. I regret that I am coming at my goals from behind, but firmly believe this is what I was meant to do and nothing is going to keep me from someday achieving my goal.

I must take an extra year to graduate do to none major related course taken at the community college. I also plan to take I gap year. I will be volunteering at the hospital starting this semester, hopefully through my gap year. I also plan to continue volunteering at a couple of my favorite summer camps. Next semester, if all goes as planned, my grades should be back to what they were and I hope to gain a position as a peer tutor through the university. This lends itself to the leadership skills I so wish to demonstrate. I have research and shadowing opportunities through relatives.

I cannot change how my education began. Nor the molestation that left me so broken for a time. But I can implement the above strategies and all else to be sure I am ready when the time comes.

To all who expressed their sorrow, thank you. It has been a long road but I final feel as though I am emotionally recovered. In the end, I am stronger for it.

Once again, thanks to all.

It seems as though you have overcome the major reasons behind your difficult transition into University; at least you are clearly able to identify them, which is wonderful. I am very glad that you are able to make your own decisions. The only thing left to do now is to improve your grades. Ask your peers what they do to study and prepare for a class. The professor can usually offer some insight as to how to approach a course as well. Make use of your school's learning center if you can they might be able to spot a deficit you have failed to recognize. First and foremost, make a concerted effort to know your limits and always keep up with the material in every class. Knowing what you need to know is the bare minimum of being able to succeed in a class.
 
Says who?
Says me. A lot of kids bomb their first semester in college due to the shock they are in "omg parties, omg I'm adult, I don't study before my exams and I did just fine in hs ...etc"
 
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