Seeing how I have taken the MCAT before, I think a major problem I have is becoming nervous during the test and even in test preparations. I think these test nerves impair my ability to answer certain questions; specifically, ones that require thorough thought process/analysis
Any suggestions on how to calm my nerves/relax?
Yes. Don't give a ****. Just relax, and don't care so much about how well you do. It's the only way to do it. It's a thinking exam and your mind needs to be clear.
If you're overthinking you have to exercise/sleep better/relax/stop hanging around premeds/stop being so personally competitive. It will hamper you.
You have to stop worrying about how you will do or how others will do/perceive you if you fail.
You have to be separated from your outcome.
You hav to have backup plans so that you realize that it's not the end of the world if you **** up.
So what if you do bad? You can do better again the 2nd time or third time or fourth time even (although people will say you should just give up because there's no point, I disagree slightly).
Be happier. Go out with your friends more, family, exercise, etc. and stop freaking out if you don't get into medicine right away. Medicine is not as glamorous as it seems, and if you're old enough to have worked in the real world for a few years, you realize that it's just a regular job with the same frustrations, pains, and ennui that is in practically in every field.
Seeing as SDN is a bunch of Asian gunner premeds who think that they will have to commit seppuku if they don't make it into medical school on the first shot and their parents will disown them, you'll think that now you have to take a year or two or three before going in. Time off is a good thing if this occurs. It's not a big deal, and honestly a little world experience and growing up will do wonders on your confidence and performance in school, in dating/relationships, and in life.
My advice is to not give a ****. You get so worked up about how the exam is going to determine your life, and you end up doing worse because you're not dedicating enough mental energy to the task at hand.
You reach a point where you take so many "this exam will make it or break it for you" moments (i.e. SAT/ACT, MCAT, USMLE PART I, II, III, board certification, and 5-10 year renewals,e tc), that you have to stop freaking out so much
To do that you have to change your attitude, but I don't think you can change that consciously overnight or even over a month.
Your personality has to change so that you know how to separate yourself from the outcome for better or for worse. But, I don't think you can forcibly do this as it seems it's just an aspect of maturing, and forcing it will make things worse.
So my best advice is to,again, allow yourself to distance yourself from your outcome, exercise, sleep well, do some yoga, drink with friends, lay off the coffee, etc. Don't think so much, and just do.
And avoid SDN as much as possible. It's a bunch of overparanoid gunners who will post their stats in their "sigs" to boost their fragile egos or overprep for the MCAT (which I believe is counterproductive in so many ways). So use it only when you have nothing better to do.
Signing off now.