This is WAY CRAZY!
Here's the scoop:
Most IM programs will have inpatient and outpatient/elective blocks.
On an inpatient block, you're likely to work from 6 or 7AM to usually somewhere between 4-6PM, depending on the service and how busy it is. You will likely be on call every fourth night. Q3 call is fading away. You will get one day off per week, approximately.
On the outpatient/elective blocks, you are likely to work 7:30A - 5PM, no call, no nights, all weekends off. There may be some orphan call on the weekends, sometimes not.
Some blocks, like ED, are shifts. You might work several day shifts or night shifts per week. ED weeks are limited to 60 hours per week, usually have 2 days off per week.
As a PGY-1, expect 9-10 inpatient months and 2-3 outpatient months.
As a PGY-2, expect 8-9 inpatient months, and 3-4 outpatient months.
As a PGY-3, expect 6-7 inpatient months, and 5-6 outpatient months.
Something like that.
then there's other stuff to thrown in, such as increasing responsibility as you move up, preparing for conferences/research/case presentation(s), teaching students, etc.
as maya angelou once said "ain't nothin' to it, but to do it." i'm sure that each poster could list what their schedule was/is like, and you'd have a ton of different answers. some will be similiar, and some will be completely different. and in the end, what's on paper may not be reality!
having finished residency, i know plenty of people who had families who got through just fine. they (the resident and the family) managed to make it work. but there's no way to tell you what a potential schedule is and if that will work for you. there's no way to prepare for it, because there's literally nothing like residency.
if you've spent all day with a patient and their family in the icu, your "shift" is up at 9, you have plans to be somewhere at 930, and the patient dies at 850... do you stay or do you go? what would your family think? what would your friends think? do what your friends and family think matter in that situation?
if your night float coverage begins at 9, and you look at the clock and its now 930, what's your responsibility?
there are so many variables to a call schedule and in residency, that its hard to predict how it would be, even after laying it out.
again, ain't nothin' to it, but to do it.
expect to work a lot, and hope that you get out on time or even early!
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