Chicago Center for CS....and what happened afterward

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MediCane2006

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Okay, so took Step II CS a couple weeks ago (yes, I put it off as long as I possibly could) and blah. What a waste of time and money. I have no idea what that test could possibly measure other than to (questionably) flag some FMG's who can't speak english well enough to communicate with a patient. Having said that, I probably failed the damn thing.

The center staff were nice, professional, and courteous, and the test overall ran very well. There's a Quality Inn near the test center that's cheap and clean.

But the memorable part of the day came after the exam was over....

So the candidate behind me was a friendly chap from a big Midwest school, and since we were following each other the whole exam we chatted a bit, and ended up exchanging phone numbers since we're both going into the same specialty (surgery) at nearby institutions. After the test was over, he offered to give me a ride back to the hotel since I was going to call a cab. I declined, but then he blushed and stammered that he'd been trying to work up the nerve to ask me to go get a drink after the test.

Well, shy guys just melt me, so even though I wasn't all that attracted, I agreed to go to the bar next door for a celebratory quaff. He kept hinting that he wanted to stay for a few more, but I was tired and, after all, I didn't want to lead the poor guy on too much. I paid for my drink, and then we headed out for the (five minute) drive to the hotel.

And this is when shy boy suddenly remembers that he's a surgeon, dammit, and he's going to hook up with me come hell or high water. He started getting insistent about coming up to my hotel room, and when I said no he told me that he'd just take me to his hotel instead. I was starting to get a little (okay, a lot) freaked out at this point, and when we got to my hotel I jumped out of the car pretty quick. And then the guy GRABBED me and put me in a HEADLOCK while trying to kiss me. :scared: The hotel manager strolled out of the lobby just then, and I wriggled free and made a dash for the safety of the lobby (pausing just long enough to warn my disappointed chauffeur that if he came in after me I would call the police).

The best part of the whole story is that this nutjob has called me at least a dozen times since then, all of which go straight to voicemail. And this guy is going to be a colleague! They walk among us, boys and girls.....

(And yes, I know this doesn't go anywhere to abolishing the stereotype of the surgeon mentality.... 🙄 )
 
MediCane2006 said:
Okay, so took Step II CS a couple weeks ago (yes, I put it off as long as I possibly could) and blah. What a waste of time and money. I have no idea what that test could possibly measure other than to (questionably) flag some FMG's who can't speak english well enough to communicate with a patient. Having said that, I probably failed the damn thing.

The center staff were nice, professional, and courteous, and the test overall ran very well. There's a Quality Inn near the test center that's cheap and clean.

But the memorable part of the day came after the exam was over....

So the candidate behind me was a friendly chap from a big Midwest school, and since we were following each other the whole exam we chatted a bit, and ended up exchanging phone numbers since we're both going into the same specialty (surgery) at nearby institutions. After the test was over, he offered to give me a ride back to the hotel since I was going to call a cab. I declined, but then he blushed and stammered that he'd been trying to work up the nerve to ask me to go get a drink after the test.

Well, shy guys just melt me, so even though I wasn't all that attracted, I agreed to go to the bar next door for a celebratory quaff. He kept hinting that he wanted to stay for a few more, but I was tired and, after all, I didn't want to lead the poor guy on too much. I paid for my drink, and then we headed out for the (five minute) drive to the hotel.

And this is when shy boy suddenly remembers that he's a surgeon, dammit, and he's going to hook up with me come hell or high water. He started getting insistent about coming up to my hotel room, and when I said no he told me that he'd just take me to his hotel instead. I was starting to get a little (okay, a lot) freaked out at this point, and when we got to my hotel I jumped out of the car pretty quick. And then the guy GRABBED me and put me in a HEADLOCK while trying to kiss me. :scared: The hotel manager strolled out of the lobby just then, and I wriggled free and made a dash for the safety of the lobby (pausing just long enough to warn my disappointed chauffeur that if he came in after me I would call the police).

The best part of the whole story is that this nutjob has called me at least a dozen times since then, all of which go straight to voicemail. And this guy is going to be a colleague! They walk among us, boys and girls.....

(And yes, I know this doesn't go anywhere to abolishing the stereotype of the surgeon mentality.... 🙄 )

Are you a man?
 
Pox in a box said:
That's exactly what I thought until about 3/4 through this and I re-read it.


:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

thats what i was thinking too. i was reading that and thinking..why didnt you punt his ass across the parking lot?
 
:laugh: :laugh: Oh wow, I can see how the post might have sounded weird then.....that's pretty bad that I come across as masculine! Why would a guy have a picture of Coral from Finding Nemo as their avatar though?

I probably should have punted his a$$ across the parking lot anyway though 😡
 
MediCane2006 said:
:laugh: :laugh: Oh wow, I can see how the post might have sounded weird then.....that's pretty bad that I come across as masculine! Why would a guy have a picture of Coral from Finding Nemo as their avatar though?

I probably should have punted his a$$ across the parking lot anyway though 😡

Yuck! Ick! *sputtering** gross. Damn I wish guys knew how to take a hint (subtle or otherwise. Sheeeesh. At least it got the $1000 you had to blow on CS out of your head!

And it makes me feel better that someone is taking it late...I'm not taking the boards til Dec of 4th year and you definitely have me beat.
 
MediCane2006 said:
Okay, so took Step II CS a couple weeks ago (yes, I put it off as long as I possibly could) and blah. What a waste of time and money. I have no idea what that test could possibly measure other than to (questionably) flag some FMG's who can't speak english well enough to communicate with a patient. Having said that, I probably failed the damn thing.

The center staff were nice, professional, and courteous, and the test overall ran very well. There's a Quality Inn near the test center that's cheap and clean.

But the memorable part of the day came after the exam was over....

So the candidate behind me was a friendly chap from a big Midwest school, and since we were following each other the whole exam we chatted a bit, and ended up exchanging phone numbers since we're both going into the same specialty (surgery) at nearby institutions. After the test was over, he offered to give me a ride back to the hotel since I was going to call a cab. I declined, but then he blushed and stammered that he'd been trying to work up the nerve to ask me to go get a drink after the test.

Well, shy guys just melt me, so even though I wasn't all that attracted, I agreed to go to the bar next door for a celebratory quaff. He kept hinting that he wanted to stay for a few more, but I was tired and, after all, I didn't want to lead the poor guy on too much. I paid for my drink, and then we headed out for the (five minute) drive to the hotel.

And this is when shy boy suddenly remembers that he's a surgeon, dammit, and he's going to hook up with me come hell or high water. He started getting insistent about coming up to my hotel room, and when I said no he told me that he'd just take me to his hotel instead. I was starting to get a little (okay, a lot) freaked out at this point, and when we got to my hotel I jumped out of the car pretty quick. And then the guy GRABBED me and put me in a HEADLOCK while trying to kiss me. :scared: The hotel manager strolled out of the lobby just then, and I wriggled free and made a dash for the safety of the lobby (pausing just long enough to warn my disappointed chauffeur that if he came in after me I would call the police).

The best part of the whole story is that this nutjob has called me at least a dozen times since then, all of which go straight to voicemail. And this guy is going to be a colleague! They walk among us, boys and girls.....

(And yes, I know this doesn't go anywhere to abolishing the stereotype of the surgeon mentality.... 🙄 )

holy sh**!.............
 
And then the guy GRABBED me and put me in a HEADLOCK while trying to kiss me.


Wow- so he Robert Rey'd you?! 😱 :laugh:

why didn't you tell the kid you had a bf or something?
 
Wait, so girls don't like that method?? 😕

We call that Gorilla Pimping........when you grab a girl by the arm and make it seem like she has no choice but to talk to you. It's not exactly the classiest (or the most legal) move, but evidently this dude thought it was necessary to get some action. This guy stepped it up to a headlock. That is something else.
 
AssMan said:
Wait, so girls don't like that method?? 😕 .

Used to love it! I used to say I was married and even wore a fake wedding ring to the club to keep to dudes at bay. Works for some, but others didn't even care. Most people leave their morals at the coat check. I think the guys are wise to this method. I don't know what the younger generation is using these days.

AssMan said:
We call that Gorilla Pimping

LOL!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: That is too funny.
 
prazmatic said:
Jeez...

There were a few girls who have tried raping me in the past. Its an interesting experience to say the least...

Just curious, how does a girl rape a guy? seriously, i mean, how can that be possible if the dude is not turned on; it would mechanically be very hard.....or not
 
ObGyn said:
Just curious, how does a girl rape a guy? seriously, i mean, how can that be possible if the dude is not turned on; it would mechanically be very hard.....or not

Im not particularly aggressive, so more often than not at a club/party, Ill be drunk and some girl will pull me over and start grinding on/making out with me before I even know what hits. One girl explicitly wanted to 'take me into a closet and have her way with me' (verbatim) at a house party :scared:
 
MediCane2006 said:
Okay, so took Step II CS a couple weeks ago (yes, I put it off as long as I possibly could) and blah. What a waste of time and money. I have no idea what that test could possibly measure other than to (questionably) flag some FMG's who can't speak english well enough to communicate with a patient. Having said that, I probably failed the damn thing.

The center staff were nice, professional, and courteous, and the test overall ran very well. There's a Quality Inn near the test center that's cheap and clean.

But the memorable part of the day came after the exam was over....

So the candidate behind me was a friendly chap from a big Midwest school, and since we were following each other the whole exam we chatted a bit, and ended up exchanging phone numbers since we're both going into the same specialty (surgery) at nearby institutions. After the test was over, he offered to give me a ride back to the hotel since I was going to call a cab. I declined, but then he blushed and stammered that he'd been trying to work up the nerve to ask me to go get a drink after the test.

Well, shy guys just melt me, so even though I wasn't all that attracted, I agreed to go to the bar next door for a celebratory quaff. He kept hinting that he wanted to stay for a few more, but I was tired and, after all, I didn't want to lead the poor guy on too much. I paid for my drink, and then we headed out for the (five minute) drive to the hotel.

And this is when shy boy suddenly remembers that he's a surgeon, dammit, and he's going to hook up with me come hell or high water. He started getting insistent about coming up to my hotel room, and when I said no he told me that he'd just take me to his hotel instead. I was starting to get a little (okay, a lot) freaked out at this point, and when we got to my hotel I jumped out of the car pretty quick. And then the guy GRABBED me and put me in a HEADLOCK while trying to kiss me. :scared: The hotel manager strolled out of the lobby just then, and I wriggled free and made a dash for the safety of the lobby (pausing just long enough to warn my disappointed chauffeur that if he came in after me I would call the police).

The best part of the whole story is that this nutjob has called me at least a dozen times since then, all of which go straight to voicemail. And this guy is going to be a colleague! They walk among us, boys and girls.....

(And yes, I know this doesn't go anywhere to abolishing the stereotype of the surgeon mentality.... 🙄 )

Are you like those babes who glide around U of M? 😱 If so, then you are a natural magnet who men find difficulty resisting.

No seriously, what this guy did was very wrong. Very very wrong. I cannot beleive that there are medical students who behave like this. You should not be the one worrying about this. He should. He should be ashamed. If you meet him again (in residency) and he does not appologize, then ignore him. If tries to do something funny again, then kick his ass.
 
Leukocyte said:
Are you like those babes who glide around U of M? 😱 If so, then you are a natural magnet who men find difficulty resisting.

No seriously, what this guy did was very wrong. Very very wrong. I cannot beleive that there are medical students who behave like this. You should not be the one worrying about this. He should. He should be ashamed. If you meet him again (in residency) and he does not appologize, then ignore him. If tries to do something funny again, then kick his ass.


Kick him in the nards.
 
You might want to just answer the phone and tell him you're getting a restraining order. That might cause him to back down.
 
Leukocyte said:
Are you like those babes who glide around U of M? 😱 If so, then you are a natural magnet who men find difficulty resisting.

No seriously, what this guy did was very wrong. Very very wrong. I cannot beleive that there are medical students who behave like this. You should not be the one worrying about this. He should. He should be ashamed. If you meet him again (in residency) and he does not appologize, then ignore him. If tries to do something funny again, then kick his ass.

Leukocyte...I love guys like you. I had an intern who was the most mild-mannered sweetheart you ever met rip into a patient when he wouldn't stop trying to "accidentally" cop a feel during my exam.

Has anyone ever had a patient be inappropriate?
 
MediCane2006 said:
Okay, so took Step II CS a couple weeks ago (yes, I put it off as long as I possibly could) and blah. What a waste of time and money. I have no idea what that test could possibly measure other than to (questionably) flag some FMG's who can't speak english well enough to communicate with a patient. Having said that, I probably failed the damn thing.

The center staff were nice, professional, and courteous, and the test overall ran very well. There's a Quality Inn near the test center that's cheap and clean.

But the memorable part of the day came after the exam was over....

So the candidate behind me was a friendly chap from a big Midwest school, and since we were following each other the whole exam we chatted a bit, and ended up exchanging phone numbers since we're both going into the same specialty (surgery) at nearby institutions. After the test was over, he offered to give me a ride back to the hotel since I was going to call a cab. I declined, but then he blushed and stammered that he'd been trying to work up the nerve to ask me to go get a drink after the test.

Well, shy guys just melt me, so even though I wasn't all that attracted, I agreed to go to the bar next door for a celebratory quaff. He kept hinting that he wanted to stay for a few more, but I was tired and, after all, I didn't want to lead the poor guy on too much. I paid for my drink, and then we headed out for the (five minute) drive to the hotel.

And this is when shy boy suddenly remembers that he's a surgeon, dammit, and he's going to hook up with me come hell or high water. He started getting insistent about coming up to my hotel room, and when I said no he told me that he'd just take me to his hotel instead. I was starting to get a little (okay, a lot) freaked out at this point, and when we got to my hotel I jumped out of the car pretty quick. And then the guy GRABBED me and put me in a HEADLOCK while trying to kiss me. :scared: The hotel manager strolled out of the lobby just then, and I wriggled free and made a dash for the safety of the lobby (pausing just long enough to warn my disappointed chauffeur that if he came in after me I would call the police).

The best part of the whole story is that this nutjob has called me at least a dozen times since then, all of which go straight to voicemail. And this guy is going to be a colleague! They walk among us, boys and girls.....

(And yes, I know this doesn't go anywhere to abolishing the stereotype of the surgeon mentality.... 🙄 )

at least have the decency to return one of my messages. 👎
 
MediCane2006 said:
That's the really bad part - I DID tell him I had a bf. He gorilla-pimped (love it!) me anyway. I think I'm just going to start wearing a fake wedding ring everywhere. 🙄


dont flatter yourself.. do you think that highly of yourself that you dont think guys can control themselves in your presence..
 
rainking said:
dont flatter yourself.. do you think that highly of yourself that you dont think guys can control themselves in your presence..

Dems is fightin words....... 😀
 
rainking said:
dont flatter yourself.. do you think that highly of yourself that you dont think guys can control themselves in your presence..

No....just finally came to terms with the fact that my breathtaking beauty necessitates beating men off with a stick no matter where I go. Trust me, it is a heavy, heavy cross to bear 😉
 
MediCane2006 said:
:laugh: :laugh: Oh wow, I can see how the post might have sounded weird then.....that's pretty bad that I come across as masculine! Why would a guy have a picture of Coral from Finding Nemo as their avatar though?

I probably should have punted his a$$ across the parking lot anyway though 😡
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

seriously, you have like the girliest avatar on sdn.

and i didnt mean to put you in a headlock, it was just a hug. now return my calls damn it! 😛 :laugh:
 
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