I have searched a bunch, and I am sure the topic has been covered ad nauseum, but I am looking for the opinions of others.
shadowing opportunities....???
I shadowed a plastic surgeon for a day a couple weeks ago, and he really wanted no part of it. I have known him my entire life, but it seemed like a courtesy extended to the son of a good family friend. I had a laundry list of questions to ask, but most of them eventually turned into him giving me financial advice. I thanked him graciously at the end of the day and he offered to write a letter if I needed it. I sent him a note, thanking him again even though I was pretty deflated.
Current dilemma:
I know that my mother has designed quite a few houses for doctors in the area. Do I cold call these people; introduce myself "Hi, this is Marshall, son of your architect..." or do I ask my mother to call them first since they have an established relationship?
For some reason, I doubt I would be having any qualms if my father was calling in the favor. Am I thinking way too much into this? Do I just ask her to call for me?
shadowing opportunities....???
I shadowed a plastic surgeon for a day a couple weeks ago, and he really wanted no part of it. I have known him my entire life, but it seemed like a courtesy extended to the son of a good family friend. I had a laundry list of questions to ask, but most of them eventually turned into him giving me financial advice. I thanked him graciously at the end of the day and he offered to write a letter if I needed it. I sent him a note, thanking him again even though I was pretty deflated.
Current dilemma:
I know that my mother has designed quite a few houses for doctors in the area. Do I cold call these people; introduce myself "Hi, this is Marshall, son of your architect..." or do I ask my mother to call them first since they have an established relationship?
For some reason, I doubt I would be having any qualms if my father was calling in the favor. Am I thinking way too much into this? Do I just ask her to call for me?
