For probably 75% of my composite restorations I place (large class 4's being the exception to the following), pretty much the only "instrument" I use for placing/contouring uncured composite is my microbrush that is damp with bonding resin. In my hands atleast it really lets me work the composite to pretty darn close to the final contour easily and quickly. After curing, some minor contouring with various shaped high speed finishing diamonds and then a few passes with an extra fine sof-flex disc in my low speed followed by Shofu super-buff polishing cups and things are good and SMOOTH.
The key is finding something that works IN YOUR HANDS and then repeating over and over.
One of the best polishing tips, for me atleast, I heard in a CE course given by Dr Paul Belvedere (the owner of Cosmodent). #1 BEFORE YOU ETCH, have a 100% crystal clear mental image of where your cavosurface margins are #2 extend your etch area 1-2mm past the cavosurface margins wherever possible (obviously you can't really do this on the gingival floor of a box in a properly matrixed an wedged class 2restoration) #3 when placing your final layer of composite, make sure that you get that extended etched area past the cavosurface mrgin covered with a thin layer of composite) #4 final finishing of that area past the cavosurface margin should be done with sof-flex/sandpaper discs going FROM THE COMPOSITE TO THE ENAMEL - That's the biggie, finish from the composite to the enamel, not vise verse for smoother margins