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Exactly.I will be participating in the couples match this year and was hoping someone who has done it in the past or is doing it this year can clarify how to put our lists into the NRMP website.
I thought when I logged on I would see a list like this:
Me Her
1. School 1 School A
2. School 2 School B
3. School 3 School C
4. ______ _______
5. ______ _______
But what I actually have is just my ROL and then I have a tab that lets me see her ROL, but I am never able to see the two lists as one. So when making our ROL does the computer see both of our number 1 choices as one line and both of our number 2 choices as one line and so on?
So my wife and I are both applying this year also... but it was recommended to us by 2 separate couples we met that were reapplying this year to not go through the "official couples" match... they basically were reapplying this year because they failed to have matched in the official couples match last year (they were couple applicants with scores in the 230s.. for IM ) .. they believed the couples match hurt them.. this year they were applying separately but ranking their lists the same and telling programs about this..
Is this a wise approach?
No, it's not. They failed b/c they didn't even understand how couples match works and/or b/c there was no program that was interested even in one of them. And as we can see even after one more year they still didn't get it so maybe that's the answer too. Check carefully that southernIM's link and after that join your list with your wife's....So my wife and I are both applying this year also... but it was recommended to us by 2 separate couples we met that were reapplying this year to not go through the "official couples" match... they basically were reapplying this year because they failed to have matched in the official couples match last year (they were couple applicants with scores in the 230s.. for IM ) .. they believed the couples match hurt them.. this year they were applying separately but ranking their lists the same and telling programs about this..
Is this a wise approach?
No, it's not. They failed b/c they didn't even understand how couples match works and/or b/c there was no program that was interested even in one of them. And as we can see even after one more year they still didn't get it so maybe that's the answer too. Check carefully that southernIM's link and after that join your list with your wife's....
Lol. Good question... and easy answer... the only what NRMP tells you is this: http://www.nrmp.org/match-process/couples-in-the-match/ ... nothing more and I don't really think that I'm stupid but after reading that for the first time I didn't get it whole too. So yes... they do really bad job but since we have the google (and SDN ofc) no one can have a problem to understand it well after few more minutes of reading. (especially thanks to aPD how made that process totaly clear and understandable)Umm, I just looked at the link mentioned above, and I am damn glad I am applying without any consideration for couples matching - I totally get the concept, but the practical reality of how to construct the best possible lists is pretty intimidating to me. But again, it doesn't apply to me, so I don't really want to fill my head with something like that - maybe it would make a lot more sense if I had to figure it out.
I have a question about this: does the NRMP site do a good job of guiding couples - does NRMP simplify the construction of the lists? Or do you need to figure out how to do it outside of the NRMP instructions?
Umm, I just looked at the link mentioned above, and I am damn glad I am applying without any consideration for couples matching - I totally get the concept, but the practical reality of how to construct the best possible lists is pretty intimidating to me. But again, it doesn't apply to me, so I don't really want to fill my head with something like that - maybe it would make a lot more sense if I had to figure it out.
I have a question about this: does the NRMP site do a good job of guiding couples - does NRMP simplify the construction of the lists? Or do you need to figure out how to do it outside of the NRMP instructions?