WARNING: MAJOR VENTING SESSION FOLLOWS.
School in general isn't made for those with other responsibilities. So while the single students have only themselves to pay for, here we are trying to make it work for a family of four with a freekin' mortgage (which was WAAAAAAAAAAY cheaper than renting a 3 BR home!), feeding FOUR people, utilities for four, school supplies for three, clothing... I mean, dang! and yet every day I hear those single folks complain their loans "aren't enough". These are the same students flying home every month or two, while I'm trying to pay the electric bill. And yes, my spouse works, but he had to take a 50% pay cut and go to the bottom of the ladder (read: GRAVEYARD shift). Great. He already just barely made enough before.
So, NO my single friends, I DON'T have money to go out to the bar tonight. I DON'T have money to donate to your club's cause. I DON'T have money to go to all those fabulous conventions all over the country that are "SOOOO GOOD" for networking and professional development. Please pick up some of those freebies for me. I'm running out of pens and my current tote has a hole in it.
Ok. I'm done griping. *sigh*. Being poor sucks. But it sure makes you creative about where to buy the necessities (grocery stores are expensive).
You're all right. It doesn't make sense. But I think it makes us more hungry. It makes us appreciate the opportunities and struggles more. And I've been told by those same single students that they are jealous of us having someone at home- something that ISN'T med school. We have a life outside of the classroom that is worth more than a night at the bar.
I think when I'm on my feet and making a decent living, I'm going to find a private scholarship for nontrad med students. It might only be $5,000 a year, but to me the student right now that would be heavenly.