I currently live in the same city as my waitlisted school, so if I get in there I don't need to look for an apartment or move or anything. The school I'm accepted at is 600 miles away. Both schools are excellent, and I think I'll be very happy at either. Ultimately, staying at the waitlisted school would mean staying close to friends and family, as well being able to continue with the research I'm doing now, which is why I'm still hoping I come off the waitlist.
I think my plan is to start looking for a place at my accepted school in mid June. When I find a place I like and sign the lease, that will be my decision. Personally, I'm not willing to throw my life into total disarray over some last minute change of heart from a med school.
I actually feel kind of bad about the fact that I've accepted this spot officially now, but am still working on other options. I know that it isn't unethical or dishonest. I know this is how the system works. I know that every school has a waitlist, and that when they accept a student from the waitlist the expectation is that the student will probably have to drop another acceptance to switch. I still feel a little unsavory, though.
I'll be glad when this is all settled.