"MarkP" I know what is realistic to me, perhaps it couldn't be realistic to you. That's not my problem. Thanks to everyone else for their constructive criticism.
Mark can come across as critical sometimes, but after relying on this board quite a bit the last year or so while I was applying to PhD programs, I am convinced that he is actually just matter-of-fact, and his motivation is to help others, not to cut them down. If you read further you'll find out more about his saga applying to schools, and see how he faced lots of disappointment but just powered through it to get where he is, which is a top-notch program at a great school. Being coddled it the information gathering stage doesn't help us, since we sure as heck won't be coddled as applicants (and likely as students). The stuff I learned on this site and through members like Mark did freak me out at first, but ultimately led me to toughen up, really prepare, and kick butt during the process.
What I've learned from this process is to try, to the best of your ability, to be as aware of how insanely competitive and difficult this process is, but not allow fear to dissuade you from your goals. Though I guess folks that decide to no pursue the PhD because they are freaked out about the grueling application process aren't really ready anyway. Keep on reading, here but of course also on sites of other schools you are interested in. If you're sure you want practice over research (or equal emphasis) only look at programs that make it clear that is where they stand. If you hang out here, you will read over and over people with great stats and experience posting that this is their second time around because they only applied to one or two schools last year.
One thing you'll see people say over and over (and it's true, largely) is that there are great programs at schools with less famous names, and really big-name schools who may not have a program that's right for you. I had that experience, applying to PhD's in the same city I went to undergrad, and the way you looks at names and programs is really different. I first thought Big Urban Ivy was my dream school, but as I began to looks at other programs I saw that there were other, non-Ivy programs that were perhaps better in general, but definately better for me. NY is also notorious for not providing great funding -- I don't know if you get the same thing in LA -- and the non-ivies often also funded better, because they didn't have the fancy name to draw folks and make them willing to take out loans.
UCLA is a great school. I guess when I see someone saying (and forgive me if i missed something and am wrong) that they have thier hearts sent on one program, I worry that they are setting themselves up for trouble. I'm 31, and Back In The Day you could apply for college like that (I think I applied to 3 reaches and go into all of them) but things are different now, especially psych grad school. I guess as someone who has gone through this ordeal and come out where I wanted to be, my motivation for responding to posts of people just starting out is to try to share what I learned and maybe save them some aggrivation. And what I learned, which is also something I learned when I was dating in my twenties, is that you may have a type but it's good to take a hard look and make sure that it's really the best for you. Check out other programs, looks around, talk to other admissions advisers and also Masters and PhD students at those schools -- half the time if you poke around the website you'll find student reps you can contact.
good luck!