PhD/PsyD How are you avoiding/procrastinating?

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As I sit and wait for internship interview emails to (theoretically) roll in, I've been procrastinating on everything and engaging in more avoidant behavior than I ever have before. Despite having papers, reports, results/etc to write, I am doing anything else. Tonight included going through 4 years' worth of photos on iCloud to delete duplicates. Yesterday was ironing creases into all my pants.

What have you been doing?
 
As I sit and wait for internship interview emails to (theoretically) roll in, I've been procrastinating on everything and engaging in more avoidant behavior than I ever have before. Despite having papers, reports, results/etc to write, I am doing anything else. Tonight included going through 4 years' worth of photos on iCloud to delete duplicates. Yesterday was ironing creases into all my pants.

What have you been doing?
I've been binge-watching The Handmaid's Tale and The Wire. Should've probably chosen more uplifting/funny shows to watch during this time :wacky:
 
I've been binge-watching The Handmaid's Tale and The Wire. Should've probably chosen more uplifting/funny shows to watch during this time :wacky:

Those feel fairly accurate in relation to "do what you can to survive", "fake it 'til you make it" aspects of the academic and practical training processes. :greedy:😉
 
I've been binge watching survivor. I've watched an INCREDIBLE amount of Survivor seasons this year.....i'm slowly making my way through every season. If I don't match perhaps i'll give up on my psychology plans & apply for the show...
 
World Chess Championship. Game 3 tomorrow 10 AM ET.

FiveThirtyEight has some creative coverage and stats. Twitch is the place for play by play and analysis. Unfortunately, you have to buy a pass to watch the actual live event.

I'm pretty bad at chess and know little about tactics or theory. But damn is it fun/inspiring to watch two geniuses computing at full power for 3+ hours.
 
Back in the dark ages of mailing hard copies to each individual site, I played a lot of golf, hit the gym, and I ate a lot of sushi. The post office was 2 blocks from my fav hole in the wall sushi place, so I ate there after mailing each grouping of apps.
 
I'm aggressively pretending that I'm not checking my email 120312039 times a day by throwing myself into recruitment for my dissertation so I can bang that ish out before internship (maybe). Also obsessively searching #puppies on instagram, which I highly recommend because INSTANT HAPPY FEELS. 😍
 
Recently, I’ve been looking up and saving recipes I’ll probably never make.

Haha me too! In my defense though, I did actually make one 🙂 I’ve also been practicing electric guitar (mostly blues + classic rock) and I’ve been relearning French after barely using it over the past 10 years.

I think this is a time in the graduate school journey when you just have to get by using any means necessary. Self-compassion can be particularly useful in these moments.


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I wish I could throw myself into something productive like some of y'all are doing! I need to obtain IRB approval for my dissertation and it shouldn't really take long to submit it but I just can't seem to focus for more then 2 minutes...it's really bad.
 
Yesterday was watching whale videos and googling play therapy products I cannot afford to purchase. Mentally composing thank you cards for recommenders, yet abstaining from actually writing them because that would be actual progress. 👽
 
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