How much does looks matter at your school?

[hallowmann]

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I don't really care either way. It's their life. But I find it interesting that the blame always tends to land on the woman

You also notice how the entire thread went straight to implying that the girl did something scandalous with the attending to get that response despite the more likely explanation that the attending was trying to be "nice" to her (and he was the one being inappropriate) or even the likely possibility that she was just a nicer/better student/person than the OP.

you keep using the word i. this is not about you. i am speaking in general terms. notice i said the common kid. look at all the young black men. even the nypd cop boss bratton just said last week that they can't hire blacks in the city to police the black areas because the blacks are not hireable. why? a huge majority have criminal records. why? no parenting along with the reasons i spoke of above. they chose a life of crime. the stats prove what i said. the numbers are not my opinion.
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Whenever people talk about people of color that have criminal records the explanation is always they chose that path, they ruined their lives, or their parents did. I'll tell you I knew plenty of wealthy white people as well as poor white people in high school that constantly broke the law. The difference is that when those people got caught they were brought back home and given a "talking to", whereas the non-white kids get charged, have a record and can never get stable jobs.

There exists in this country a vicious cycle that oppresses people of color, and in general people (of any color) born with less means. Those same people are targeted more frequently than others by police, and they're given harsher judgment and treatment as well. That treatment adversely affects their lives forever, making it very difficult for them to get a job, maintain a job, and simply live a normal life. Sure there are exceptions, but just because some people got lucky, doesn't mean anyone can.

I'm sure you didn't mean anything by your statements, it just bothers me that despite being painfully aware of this fact since I was a teenager, it bothers me when people act like that's not the way the world works.

Anyway, I said my peace, I'm out of this thread and forum. Allo seems way more "pre-med" or basic than it used to be, either that or I'm just me inpatient than I used to be.

 

[Dr.Smexy]

I dont disagree that those things help.
What I'm saying is that people ultimately settle for someone in their own league. Hence why the vast majority of the population is with someone who is of a similar level of attractiveness.

Buddy, you seems to be very fixated on look being number one...maybe you're right but 100% real talk from real experience of being friend with some serious players? The way you carry yourself and how you make others feel is the key that unlocks everything. You can change a girl mind on how attractive she thinks you are...men don't work that way unfortunately haha

 

[Hustler101]

Buddy, you seems to be very fixated on look being number one...maybe you're right but 100% real talk from real experience of being friend with some serious players? The way you carry yourself and how you make others feel is the key that unlocks everything. You can change a girl mind on how attractive she thinks you are...men don't work that way unfortunately haha

And I went from being basically ugly (average by real world standards) to very attractive. I had a better personality earlier and had 0 success with women. Fast forward to now and the difference is night and day.
Nonetheless those "players" are undoubtedly very attractive physically. The rest is just about engaging the opposite sex... What you have to realize is that any decent looking girl will have endless guys trying to get with her. When your friends carry themselves well and "change the girls' minds" they are actually becoming the girl's top choices.

 

[Dr.Smexy]

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And I went from being basically ugly (average by real world standards) to very attractive. I had a better personality earlier and had 0 success with women. Fast forward to now and the difference is night and day.
Nonetheless those "players" are undoubtedly very attractive physically. The rest is just about engaging the opposite sex... What you have to realize is that any decent looking girl will have endless guys trying to get with her. When your friends carry themselves well and "change the girls' minds" they are actually becoming the girl's top choices.

You basically just supported what I said with your last paragraph...and I do realize that girls have options haha I wasn't born yesterday that's why good look is dime in dozen. But hey I'm glad you're doing well with the ladies, arguing over the internet doesn't mean much. Gotta be honest though when you said "better personality earlier" I definitely imagined you as the beta ultra nice guy that always turn girls off. Anyway, at least you getting some now so good work 🙂

 

[Hustler101]

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You basically just supported what I said with your last paragraph...and I do realize that girls have options haha I wasn't born yesterday that's why good look is dime in dozen. But hey I'm glad you're doing well with the ladies, arguing over the internet doesn't mean much. Gotta be honest though when you said "better personality earlier" I definitely imagined you as the beta ultra nice guy that always turn girls off. Anyway, at least you getting some now so good work 🙂

Actually no I resembled the "cool guy" type and I'd be at parties etc regularly. I wont say I had 0 success but in relative terms it may as well be zero. Definitely not what you think.
Good looks among men are not common. Men view women's attractiveness in a bell curve fashion whereas women view men skewed to the left.

Anyway the problem with this topic is that people can interpret what you're saying as that you can be plain average or even below average and still get hotties left and right (when that's impossible).

 

[KEB]

It has taken me thirty-four years to realize that for women, looks are absolutely number one. I joke that the money I spent on my chemistry, nursing, and master's degrees, I should have just bought a gym membership, a tanning bed package and a dye job for my hair. My academic achievements have came at a price, as my physical fitness has suffered. So here I am, at 34 years old, with no husband or kids, and sixty pounds overweight, while hot secretaries and cashiers are landing doctors and lawyers. I start D1 bootcamp on Thursday. I don't like the rules, but I'm damn sure gonna learn to play the game. So yes, looks matter A LOT.

 

[olivarynucleus]

It has taken me thirty-four years to realize that for women, looks are absolutely number one. I joke that the money I spent on my chemistry, nursing, and master's degrees, I should have just bought a gym membership, a tanning bed package and a dye job for my hair. My academic achievements have came at a price, as my physical fitness has suffered. So here I am, at 34 years old, with no husband or kids, and sixty pounds overweight, while hot secretaries and cashiers are landing doctors and lawyers. I start D1 bootcamp on Thursday. I don't like the rules, but I'm damn sure gonna learn to play the game. So yes, looks matter A LOT.

Looks and brains matter. It just so happens you let you looks slip + 60 pounds.

 

[Hustler101]

It has taken me thirty-four years to realize that for women, looks are absolutely number one. I joke that the money I spent on my chemistry, nursing, and master's degrees, I should have just bought a gym membership, a tanning bed package and a dye job for my hair. My academic achievements have came at a price, as my physical fitness has suffered. So here I am, at 34 years old, with no husband or kids, and sixty pounds overweight, while hot secretaries and cashiers are landing doctors and lawyers. I start D1 bootcamp on Thursday. I don't like the rules, but I'm damn sure gonna learn to play the game. So yes, looks matter A LOT.

Looks matter just as much for men... it isn't just women.

 

[Hustler101]

Looks and brains matter. It just so happens you let you looks slip + 60 pounds.

For success absolutely yes. For happiness I'd say brains make it harder. Being attractive and ignorant is the ultimate combination for happiness in western society.

 

[olivarynucleus]

For success absolutely yes. For happiness I'd say brains make it harder. Being attractive and ignorant is the ultimate combination for happiness in western society.

I agree ignorance is bliss.

 

[KEB]

For success absolutely yes. For happiness I'd say brains make it harder. Being attractive and ignorant is the ultimate combination for happiness in western society.

You're probably right. Stupid women are easier to control, and if they have no marketable skill, they're just happy to have someone who will feed them and give them a place to live. Life is easier if you just look doe-eyed, giggle, and put out.

 

[olivarynucleus]

You're probably right. Stupid women are easier to control, and if they have no marketable skill, they're just happy to have someone who will feed them and give them a place to live. Life is easier if you just look doe-eyed, giggle, and put out.

When I said ignorance is bliss, I meant for men too, for everyone. People who work menial low wage jobs, go to church every Sunday, and tout conservative values are some of the happiest people around because they have so many support structures in this country.

 

[Psai]

It has taken me thirty-four years to realize that for women, looks are absolutely number one. I joke that the money I spent on my chemistry, nursing, and master's degrees, I should have just bought a gym membership, a tanning bed package and a dye job for my hair. My academic achievements have came at a price, as my physical fitness has suffered. So here I am, at 34 years old, with no husband or kids, and sixty pounds overweight, while hot secretaries and cashiers are landing doctors and lawyers. I start D1 bootcamp on Thursday. I don't like the rules, but I'm damn sure gonna learn to play the game. So yes, looks matter A LOT.

nobody is impressed by a degree
the more letters you put, the less respect i have for you

 

[Hustler101]

When I said ignorance is bliss, I meant for men too, for everyone. People who work menial low wage jobs, go to church every Sunday, and tout conservative values are some of the happiest people around because they have so many support structures in this country.

You literally spoke my mind! Work a blue collar job, party, hang out, etc. seems to be the best way to live. If your IQ is higher though (like everyone on here) you'll have a hard time accepting that lifestyle.

 

[Hustler101]

nobody is impressed by a degree
the more letters you put, the less respect i have for you

It's the same for men and women though. The vast majority of successful high income guys have wives who are on their own level of looks. Same goes for women who are successful.

 

[Dr.Smexy]

It's the same for men and women though. The vast majority of successful high income guys have wives who are on their own level of looks. Same goes for women who are successful.

Disagree, lots of high income guys I know married to girls way out of their league (personal don't believe in the league concept either) women seems to be the case like you said though

 

[Psai]

Disagree, lots of high income guys I know married to girls way out of their league (personal don't believe in the league concept either) women seems to be the case like you said though

only league i know is league of legends

 

[Hustler101]

Disagree, lots of high income guys I know married to girls way out of their league (personal don't believe in the league concept either) women seems to be the case like you said though

Depends on many things like how high the income is, what pond they were fishing in, the location, as well as how objectively attractive the two sides really are. Having grown up in and associating with those of the upper class, what I said has usually held true. Though I have noticed intelligent successful girls in this generation tend to date above their league more often than not.

Ultimately everyone goes for the best they can get. Smarter ones with options will obviously go for the best rather than settle.