But Why is it the governments job to hold the hand of every citizen?
The thing that NO ONE understands that with freedom comes RESPONSIBILITY.
This is really a misled statement.
We are not purely individuals, we live in a society.
The government (granted it can be run better) is not some foreign monolith. It is the institution we have designated as a society to tackle our common problems.
Your argument is a pretty severe statement. By the same logic, then why do I have to pay to educate children in the inner city? Or anywhere?
California pays infinitely more taxes than Arizona - why should I pay federal dollars to ensure the secure borders of Arizona? I have never set foot in the midwest outside Chicago, why should I pay to repair highways in the midwest?
Loving your country/being a patriot is not just saluting the flag. If you love America, then you pay for America. You pay to educate it's people, you pay for the healthcare of its people, you pay for the national security of its people, you pay for America's infrastructure.
Joining the army is not the only sacrifice you can offer your country.
I understand paying high taxes is a nuisance - everyone in my family contributes more than a fair share. However, you should not just think of yourself. Paying to educate people is good for the economy and society. Paying for people's healthcare is good for productivity and society.
There are tons of institutions that are socialized. The postal service for example. It's the best in the world. No, it's not FedEx, but FedEx is not 43 cents either.
Next time you wonder "why should I pay for THEM," know that THEY paid for YOU. You owe what you are to all of the institutions and support structures you benefited from. Someone else paid taxes to send you to public school. Someone else paid taxes to keep you safe as you grew up. Even someone else pays taxes to maintain an infrastructure and environment that is conducive to small business (dental practice). In fact, someone else paid taxes to subsidize your dental education: it costs a lot more than you paid. Someone else pays to subsidize the interest on your loans. You live 18 years longer than you would in 1940 because someone else paid taxes to fund medical research.
What we have didn't materialize because Jefferson wrote 11 words on paper. What he have came through a lot of people's sacrifice and a lot of their money. Don't you think you should contribute your share a little more happily?
Someone on the thread was saying that educational loans are burden enough and that socialized medicine would be too much. I am not going to compare us to a socialist country because we are different. But I just want to cite an example of Sweden. I lived there last summer. Healthcare is essentially free, but so is education. When I finish my DMD I will have spent $468,000 on my education ($168,000 undergrad, $300,000 dental). In Sweden the doctor gets educated for free. (You get loans, the gov. pays the loans if you graduate). And believe me those doctors do well. The one I worked with had an 18th century flat in Stockholm, a house in Copenhagen, and Audi A8 (anyone who owns a car that big in Stockholm must have exhausted all other ways of wasting extra money).
And Sweden has a higher human development index than we do.
Granted, if you want to argue lower taxes, and more efficient government then I'm 100% in agreement. However, it is really glib to ask "why should I pay for you?" Paying for THEM was how we came out of a depression, bombed the hell out of Europe, and then rebuilt it. Not bad eh?