I had already met the physician I shadowed in a social setting and
we had a basic rapport already established. We were on a first
name basis - he called me Dave and I called him Doctor. 😀
Anyway, enough levity - First, I wouldn't (and didn't) ask questions
in front of the patients in the treatment rooms. Wait until you're
outside and it's between you and the physician. Do NOT discuss
other patient's conditions where others can hear it (HIPPA).
Generally be respectful, keep your ears and eyes open and your
mouth shut. You can learn a lot that way.
Once it's all said and done, if you get the opportunity (say at lunch
or after the office closes) - say he sits down with you and asks you
the 'Well, what did you think?' type of question, then ask your questions.
Remember that shadowing is your chance to see if you REALLY want to be
in the ballgame. While no 'job' is perfect, medicine is more of a calling than
a job. Believe me, when things are going hot and heavy in basic sciences
and you don't think you can jam one more neuro pathway into your brain and
you really don't care about NaCl/H20 exchange in the kidneys you'll need
more than the 'wow, I just want to be a doctor and save the planet'
mentality to pull you through......
Have fun. I always do when I'm shadowing or on preceptorships.....