oh and coming from a nursing student perspective with mild bpd....i think most of us need to be nurtured..not reprimanded..we are like little kids in adult bodies...my therapist told me that i don't exhibit all the criteria for bpd but that i have some traits. I read that book by lineham a while back before i got into nursing school and was floating between majors. i can see how we can be the most frustrating patients ever. I also read about dbt therapy(i can't afford this therapy) so i just read about it and do it myself. I use meditation techniques and the mindfulness techniques to help with my emotionality. IT REALLY HELPS. i think that more psychiatrists should encourage meditation and yoga techniques. It is because of these things coupled with zoloft, that i am able to harness my emotions into a positive outlet rather than participate in self destructive and self loathing activities..just my opinion.🙄