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TLDR; Would love to hear people's experience with psychiatrists being able to take moderate length breaks and vacations every now and then. I imagine times like switching jobs would be ideal, but would like to hear if anyone has been able to swing such things in the context of a long-term commitment to patients.
Hi friends, first SDN post ever after years of checking in here and there from afar.
So I love the mind and neuroscience and talking to people and I love psychology and philosophy and literature and thinking about what makes a good life. Psych seems to have everything I would want in a career in that it seems more related to these things than just about any other field. That said, I am not a fan of bashing "the others" and I think I could be moderately happy in just about anything in medicine (though the dark tunnel of a surgery residency at certain institutions might give me a run for my money).
I value free time and life experience and people-watching and nature and witnessing the human experience far above money. With only one life to live on this fragile Earth (and possibly part of a life to live on Mars if Elon Musk makes good on his word), I would prefer to spend more time in a field related to the questions of what it means to be human and what it means to have meaning in life and to think about how to deal with suffering. I recognize psych will be hard at times, though, and cannot pretend to know just how challenging it will be.
All that said, I had been thinking about EM for the longest time before having my 3rd year psych epiphany of realizing it's not all about SSRIs, and was going to make EM my thing up until a couple months ago. Besides being perceived as a bit of a badass, the variety and the opportunity to meet all types of people, I really liked the idea of being able to do shifts and to go home without open loops going in my head about things to remember, i.e. loops overshadowing a deeper enjoyment of life and the present moment.
I am okay with not needing to show I am a badass through my career (I think how you show your love and appreciation for people matters much more than how cool your career sounds... although psych still sounds cool to me) and I'm okay with having some open loops going with psychiatry. My clinical experience in psych 3rd year seems to be loop-creating, but the value it adds to life (having a sense of purpose in thinking about your patients) seems to be worth the slight loss of peace of mind.
So here's the rub: I am keen on travel, and believe an ideal society ought to allow citizens to take extended breaks in their careers in order to rejuvenate and experience life, so long as they spend a decent portion of their life as servants to others. I want to know for those who are practicing psychiatry and who know people practicing in psychiatry: how realistic is it to take a month off (or more) every couple years or so?
I had always wanted to be a teacher before medical school, and absolutely loved the idea of summers full of exploration and reading and learning before returning to your students in the fall. My mom is a teacher and so I have seen how incredible this is to have in your career.
Can I possibly take a month off every so often as a psychiatrist? Can I take a year off at age 42 to travel the world? And at age 54 as well? Will I ever be able to do such things without worrying terribly about letting patients down or not being there when someone is deeply in need? I know that if you are doing inpatient stuff, this is less of a worry. But for those who have long-term patients, how have you dealt with these questions? I know this is also tricky with research commitments too.
Many thanks for any candid responses you have to offer.
TZ
Hi friends, first SDN post ever after years of checking in here and there from afar.
So I love the mind and neuroscience and talking to people and I love psychology and philosophy and literature and thinking about what makes a good life. Psych seems to have everything I would want in a career in that it seems more related to these things than just about any other field. That said, I am not a fan of bashing "the others" and I think I could be moderately happy in just about anything in medicine (though the dark tunnel of a surgery residency at certain institutions might give me a run for my money).
I value free time and life experience and people-watching and nature and witnessing the human experience far above money. With only one life to live on this fragile Earth (and possibly part of a life to live on Mars if Elon Musk makes good on his word), I would prefer to spend more time in a field related to the questions of what it means to be human and what it means to have meaning in life and to think about how to deal with suffering. I recognize psych will be hard at times, though, and cannot pretend to know just how challenging it will be.
All that said, I had been thinking about EM for the longest time before having my 3rd year psych epiphany of realizing it's not all about SSRIs, and was going to make EM my thing up until a couple months ago. Besides being perceived as a bit of a badass, the variety and the opportunity to meet all types of people, I really liked the idea of being able to do shifts and to go home without open loops going in my head about things to remember, i.e. loops overshadowing a deeper enjoyment of life and the present moment.
I am okay with not needing to show I am a badass through my career (I think how you show your love and appreciation for people matters much more than how cool your career sounds... although psych still sounds cool to me) and I'm okay with having some open loops going with psychiatry. My clinical experience in psych 3rd year seems to be loop-creating, but the value it adds to life (having a sense of purpose in thinking about your patients) seems to be worth the slight loss of peace of mind.
So here's the rub: I am keen on travel, and believe an ideal society ought to allow citizens to take extended breaks in their careers in order to rejuvenate and experience life, so long as they spend a decent portion of their life as servants to others. I want to know for those who are practicing psychiatry and who know people practicing in psychiatry: how realistic is it to take a month off (or more) every couple years or so?
I had always wanted to be a teacher before medical school, and absolutely loved the idea of summers full of exploration and reading and learning before returning to your students in the fall. My mom is a teacher and so I have seen how incredible this is to have in your career.
Can I possibly take a month off every so often as a psychiatrist? Can I take a year off at age 42 to travel the world? And at age 54 as well? Will I ever be able to do such things without worrying terribly about letting patients down or not being there when someone is deeply in need? I know that if you are doing inpatient stuff, this is less of a worry. But for those who have long-term patients, how have you dealt with these questions? I know this is also tricky with research commitments too.
Many thanks for any candid responses you have to offer.
TZ