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I started an online psych class today & seeing as though this is a forum & applicable here as well, I had to ask. I'm usually not a judgmental person, but I've seen this side of me rear its head on the forums & 1 day into my class, I've already semi-written people off.
Grammar, spelling, and punctuation are important to me too. I know some people aren't native speakers, are dyslexic, or have other sorts of problems that impinge their abilities to be literate, and that is totally understandable. However, most of the poor writing that I see seems to just stem from carelessness or the writer not paying attention to the rules of the language. It frustrates me too sometimes. I probably wouldn't call those posts that you shared "cringe-worthy", but it seems a little odd for them to be so casual when it was clearly stated how important college-level writing was for grading purposes.
Whenever I get annoyed by bad syntax, I try to change my mood to simply being amused. I like editing, so I mentally mark up the text with cross-outs and added punctuation as neatly as possible. Then it becomes a bit more of a game, and I stop minding so much that someone didn't pay attention to their sentence structure. Keep in mind that getting worked up about another person's deficits is ultimately much more detrimental for you, because while you get heated, they might not know / probably won't care / almost definitely won't change. I know that that isn't terribly helpful, but it's a good thing to rationally consider.
Being a good writer is a great skill to have, though, for sure.
People who don't right good, probably do not reed good... let the mcat weed them out.
Neither look terrible to me TBH. Both are pretty typical of informal internet typing, which isn't completely unexpected when the professor is just asking a casual "tell us a bit about yourself" question. Now if they wrote like that in a paper or personal statement, then it would be pretty bad. However, it still would be far from the worst I've seen. I've read other students' papers in the past and it made me wonder how some of those people managed to get through high school, much less into college. We're talking mistakes like systematically writing "wood" instead of "would" here, not just forgetting to capitalize "I" or screwing up there/their/they're.
its not like they're talking in ebonics... They just don't care. And you shouldn't care that they don't care.
well, while we're judging people on the basis of forum postings...at best you're insensitive, you definitely have poor judgment, & you may be unethical. I'd rather have a colleague who doesn't write maturely.
What made you think it was OK to post the identifiable work of these *pre-med* students on a totally public *pre-med* forum they might use? Whether online or in a classroom, classes are educational because they offer a forum for correction & teaching moments rather than shame when a student makes a mistake. Now would be an appropriate time for you to start acting professionally--respecting your colleagues, being sensitive to people's feelings, & practicing some humility.
You didn't feel comfy posting your own submission here. Imagine how you'd feel if you came to SDN & someone had posted it to mock or put down.
Ugh, nevermind.
...I don't take it lightly when people take their education for granted. I think that's a somewhat valid pet peeve.
...Iwas very surprised to see that sort of carelessness from fellow premeds.
...Sorry, can't hear any of you over the sound of how hypocritical you're being.
These responses are hilarious. Truly, they are. While most other people were either fairly ambivalent or mildly sarcastic, this takes it to a whole different level.
I did realize after some time to reflect that what I posted probably crossed the line a little & that my feelings were mostly redirected anxieties over starting school again along with what I had expressed initially, which was disappointment, in that I wasn't really connecting with the 1st couple of premeds with whom I shared a class.
When I went to modify the post, I saw those gems of replies & it's quite unfortunate that that sort of attitude is prevalent in these forums. A mistake was made & instead of replying tactfully, people go into full-on personal attack mode. There are a lot of nice & supportive members on these forums, but there are enough people that seriously need to tone it down & make the experience quite unpleasant.
Seriously? You went out of their way to scrounge through the forums after I deleting my posts to start to make an exit from this community to try to find "ammo" against me? No, I'm not embarrassed that I had to drop out of my 1st attempt at college & I am certainly not embarrassed by the fact that my mother is mentally ill. Why should I be & what would make you think that trying to bring up those unfortunate aspects of my life is in anyway applicable to this situation? As a future doctor yourself, how do you justify being petty & vindictive to a complete stranger over something in which you have no personal stake? Take some of your own advice, for real. Had you taken the time to properly read what I had written, you would have know that neither of my classmates really had any "excuse" for their poor work. I actually did PM both of them asking if they had read the directions & received snotty replies from them both.
With that being said, I don't really think these forums are the right place for me. It was a learning experience & I definitely benefited from it at times, but it's become more of a source of tension since people tend to act out online in ways they never would in person. I have enough real-world support that it really makes no sense to continue on in something completely optional where the annoyances outweigh its potential resources. There are other avenues in which I can seek out what I need that suit me much better.
Anyway, thanks to the couple of people who were civil in this thread & good luck to you all. Some of you are gonna need it 😛

Anyway, thanks to the couple of people who were civil in this thread & good luck to you all. Some of you are gonna need it 😛