I have to agree with the MSII's here. Keep in mind that most of us passed Gross. I'm not saying that all of my exams were great, but in the end, I was pretty happy with my grade. Review the notes and do whatever you have to in order to get a set of old exams. (PM me if you are having a hard time finding exams... I'll let you copy mine)
Also, don't worry too much about Dr. Buck, Raspberry. It probably won't be the last time he gets upset with you. He can be very stern/strict/crabby... particularly in lab. However, he knows what he's talking about. Also, after the first 12 weeks, you rarely see him in the lecture hall.
My advice:
1) Consider Gross Anatomy as a sort of Boot Camp. Once you get through it, medical school gets a lot more comfortable.
2) If you are having a hard time with the exams, go to Krueger, Kulesza, or Snow for assistance. They are wonderful sources of information and will often drop a few hints on upcoming exams.
3) Find friends to study with. If you can find a good group, it makes all the difference in the world. I studied with 3 other people every day after lecture. We ALL passed Gross on the first try. (Although, all 4 of us took turns failing exams. It will happen, so don't panic!)
4) Spend lots of time in the lab, but try to limit your time in the lab to an hour or two at a time. If you're in there longer than that, it becomes overwhelming.
Sorry for the long post! Good luck! Keep working and you'll make it.😎